TAKE TEN with Author and Visionary Eve Lynne

 

by Cyrus Webb

There is nothing like the power of the imagination. When I first heard about author Eve Lynne Robinson and her character Ella B. Jenkins, I was excited about how she was able to takes real-life situations and make them fun and educational for the reader. I even had the privilege to blurb her book Ella B. Jenkins Meets First Lady Michelle Obama. 

Now Eve Lynne and Therapist Whitney Jade Gordy have teamed up for the latest installment of the Ella B. Jenkins series: Ella B. Jenkins Meets Vice President Kamala Harris.

In this Take Ten I talk with Eve about the series and the new book. 

Eve, congratulations on the new release ELLA B. JENKINS MEETS VICE PRESIDENT KAMALA HARRIS. Before we discuss that what has it been like to see the response to Ella B. Jenkins?

I have been incredibly grateful to watch the evolution of Ella B. Jenkins in the last decade. Many people initially gravitated toward this character because at the time, there was no character out there quite like her. We also understand at this point in history the importance of representation and being able to identify with cultural situations in our day-to-day life are of the upmost importance. Everyone seems to love Ella B., and I hope to give our Ella B. Family more content and material to connect with.

I never had a chance to ask you before, but where did the idea for Ella B. Jenkins come from?

Before Ella B. was created, I was creating ceramic art and sculptures with an Afrocentric flair and influence. I wanted to make ceramic tiles for my bathroom with a character representing a little chocolate girl. At the time,  I had not seen ceramic tiles with any African American images available, so I set out to create my own.  I was in my studio with a friend who said she needed a name. We went back and forth, but the name Ella kept standing out to me.  After hours of trying out different names, I decided upon Ella B. Jenkins. Her name sounded strong and had a ring to it.  I also love the Letter B. for her middle name. The story behind that will be disclosed in a future book.

We look forward to that story. Have you always wanted to write children’s books?

I have always dreamed of writing children’s books! The ability we have, especially the younger audience, to tap into the gift of imagination and fantasy is unparalleled. In these moments we have a chance again, to experience magic. 

Ella B. Jenkins has become more than just another character in a book. She’s become her own brand. How did that come about?

Ella B. truly has a life of her own. Her brand developed quite organically. Ella’s charm, mixed with sly wit has won over the support of small families, young children, independent artists and activists alike. Ella B is on a mission, and people are paying attention

Going back to the new book, it is literally right on time with where we are in time. Tell our readers about the new book.

The new book takes us on Ella B’s next adventure. We get to learn more about Ella B. and her family and how her roots around activism and social justice were influenced. We learn Ella’s mother is an incredible advocate and has inspired her passions and enthusiasm for cultural and community based causes. As an added bonus we learn Ella B. Jenkins meets Vice president Kamala Harris along the way. It’s a very fun story and highlights other important figures within the community

This book includes not just Ella B. Jenkins meeting the Vice President. It also includes some of the issues that we see going on in the world today. How did you decide on that element?

To ignore what is happening in the world right now would be a serious injustice.  Black communities and communities of color deal with a systemic problem on a day-to-day basis, that is not designed to protect or support us. The world we see today has reached its breaking point, again. Not talking about what happens around us and what we see on a daily basis is like asking us to ignore the biggest and most important parts of ourselves. 

Social media has taken on even greater importance today because of life during the pandemic. How has it helped you to read your readers?

Social media has allowed us to engage with new readers and new audiences. In the age of new media, we are also working on being able to provide a digital copy of each of these books so that you can download and access these stories on your tablets, phones and e-readers. Having access to these books through various forms is incredibly important especially as we all are doing our best to socially distance and reduce our interactions in the public. 

You have been writing for a while now, Eve. Any advice for aspiring authors out there?

The best advice I can give is to write from a place of passion and love the subject matter you are writing about. Writing can sometimes feel like a thankless job, however, being able to see your artistic vision and creativity come to life on the page is truly a rewarding and inspiring experience. 

Can you give us an idea of where Ella B. might pop up next? 

I have given a lot of thought about Ella B.’s next adventure, and I’m sure if I know Ella B. the way I think I do, she will definitely be making her way to Georgia to get a firsthand look at a certain hero who has mobilized voters and advocated for voters rights.

That gives us something to look forward to. Thanks for the time, Eve. How can our readers stay connected with you and get their copy of ELLA B. JENKINS MEETS VICE PRESIDENT KAMALA HARRIS?

I encourage everyone to visit www.Ellabjenkins.com and follow us on Instagram @ellabjenkins and be our friend on Facebook under the same name. We have have all of Ella B’s books available for purchase along with clothing items, accessories and soon to be released, the Ella B. Jenkins plush doll. 

TAKE TEN with author Sherabim Joy

 by Cyrus Webb

Though 2020 had a series of challenges even outside of the global pandemic, it was great to see so many bright spots emerging to give people hope. One of those came from author Sherabim Joy in the release of her newest children's book MANNY AND THE MAGIC KEYS: A Gift From Papa.

In this Take Ten with Sherabim we discuss her writing journey and the new release.

Sherabim, glad we had a chance to connect more in 2020. What a year that ended up being, right? What helped you to navigate the year?

2020 has been a year for the history books! My faith in God’s sovereignty has helped me to navigate these unprecedented times. Like many, I was furloughed from my place of employment, but every one of my needs was provided and it allowed time for me to reassess my long-term goals and focus on what I need to do to accomplish them. Also understanding the necessity of remaining healthy mentally and  physically for my son’s sake motivated me to maintain my momentum.

 You are known for your work as an author and as motivational speaker. Have you always known you had a love of words?

I have had a passion for reading and writing from childhood. I was one of those children who requested books for Christmas in addition to toys. When I was younger, I would write stories for entertainment but never considered becoming an author until adulthood. My love for motivational speaking was birthed through being pushed and encouraged to share the Word of God in church. I soon realized that not only did I love to preach, but I also loved to empower, inspire, and encourage people through various motivational speaking platforms.

What I love about your writing style is that you are able to entertain as well as inspire. Was that your mission?

We are an entertainment-based society, so I recognize the appeal of incorporating an amusing escape from reality for my readers.  However, as a faith-based author, I feel it is my responsibility to plant nuggets of wisdom in the hearts and minds of my readers to motivate them to excel in every area of their lives; whether spiritually, relationally, emotionally, or otherwise. My mission is always to leave my readers with a “thought” that will make them make more sound decisions.

Social media is something you have used like the rest of us. How has it helped you to stay connected and reach new readers?

Social media has become a way of life and is a great and inexpensive way to stay connected with current followers of my work as well as reach new readers. There can be a significant amount of time in between releasing work, but social media helps my readers know that I’m still around, current, and working on new material to empower their lives. Simple gestures such as posting inspirational quotes, thoughts of the day, and blogging can be highly impactful when done consistently. It makes it easier to encourage readers to purchase new works when I have kept in communication with them during the “in-between” process.

You wrapped up 2020 with a children’s book MANNY AND THE MAGIC KEYS: A Gift From Papa. Where did the idea for the book come from?

Believe it or not, I wrote “Manny And The Magic Keys: A Gift From Papa” approximately 4 years ago. The idea was inspired by my son, the real-life, Manny. When he was a toddler he was mesmerized by my father’s, his Papa’s, keys. Whenever I went to my dad’s house he would play with them and did not want to return them. Eventually, my dad gave him an old pair to take home and play with and that’s how the idea was birthed!  I have no idea why I took so long to publish the book. I think subconsciously I was afraid because children’s book writing is a new genre for me. 

One of the great things about that book is that it shows the importance of using your imagination. What do you hope the reader gets from that when they look at themselves?

I hope that young readers would embrace the reality that anything is possible, and that they should never stop dreaming!  A new reality is just one dream away!

In your book for adults AFTER THE BENEDICTION, we see how fear can hold us back. How have you not allowed that to be the case for you?

Honestly, I have allowed fear and insecurity to hold me back for years! I was bound by the fear of failure and looking foolish. One day I just realized that I was my biggest hindrance and I decided to not allow myself to be bound by fear any longer. As my Pastor always says, “sometimes you have to do things while you still feel scared.”  That is some of the greatest advice that I  have ever received.  I still feel scared sometimes about advancing in new arenas, but I’m not fearful to take the steps of faith despite how I feel.

What advice would you give for those looking to pursue their own goals and dreams?

My advice to those looking to pursue their own goals and dreams is to refuse to be their own hindrance! Each person should take time for moments of introspection to determine if they are the cause of not reaching their dreams and goals. Likewise, every dreamer needs to develop an action plan for the dream to become a reality.  A dream without an action plan is simply wishful thinking.

Can you tell us what we should expect next from you?

I am excited to be working on “After the Benediction II”, and I will be releasing another book in the “Manny In the Magic Key’s Series!” in the coming months. Likewise, I am researching opportunities to bring my two novels “After the Benediction” and “Mema’s Pretty Little Black Girls” either to the stage or screen.

Thanks for the time, Sherabim. How can our readers stay connected with you?

Cyrus it was a joy to do this interview with you, and I thank you for having me!  Readers can keep in touch with me through my website and on social media:

www.sherabimjoy.com

Facebook: @sherabim

Twitter:  @Sherabimjoy

Instagram: @sherabimjoy

[Book Review] You Are my SONshines: Born of my Heart by Winsome Sinclair

by Cyrus Webb

Family is not always about blood. It's the love that you have for each other that counts. In YOU ARE MY SONSHINES author Winsome Sinclair shows that when you have love as the main ingredient anything is possible.

The book is not just an adoption story. It is a story about a family coming together, offering support and the needed assistance to help each other feel safe and loved.

It also is a great book for blended families as well, showing that you can come together and be just as close as any biological family out there.

A great story that reminds us that love has no bounds, YOU ARE MY SONSHINES delivers a message that is much-needed today.

Get your copy on Amazon today. 

Casting Director Winsome Sinclair shares joy of adoption with first children’s book

 by Cyrus Webb

The world has gotten to know Winsome Sinclair as a respected casting agent and head of her own global casting agency, WSA. However, in 2017 she gained a new title that has forever changed her life: that of mother. That year she welcomed her two sons into her life through adoption, and ever since that day, has been able to share a life of love and togetherness with them. 

She shares that message and joy in her first children’s book, YOU ARE MY SONSHINES.

The New York native who now calls Atlanta, GA home had never thought about becoming an author before, but after adopting her sons it just seemed to come to her. “The book came to me one night,” she says. “I got up in the wee hours of the morning and started typing.” YOU ARE MY SONSHINES is the result of that early morning writing session and was released in November 2020 as the world was recognizing the power of children’s books as well as adoptions.

The book shares how Winsome and her sons came together, and it is her hope that it helps parents and other adults explain adoption to young children. “Regardless of how our children come into her lives I want them to know that they are loved and appreciated,” she says.

 Since it's release Winsome has been taking part in virtual discussions and holding virtual as well as limited in-person book events sharing her story and the message of the book.

Stay connected with Winsome on Instagram at www.instagram.com/thesomeysinclair and on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/winsome.sinclair. For booking information, e-mail: YouAreMySonshines@gmail.com.  

TAKE TEN with Author/Thought Leader Floyd Williams

by Cyrus Webb

For eight years I have watched the journey that Floyd Williams has been on, and every time we connect he has something new that he has experienced and shared. At the end of 2020 we reconnected to share what he has been up to and what's to come. 

For years now, Floyd, you have been sharing your discoveries and things you have learned with the world. What has it been like to see the response?

This question for me speaks not only to seeing but feeling. The entire experience has been truly beyond words. Simultaneously conceivable and inconceivable. You know, mentally I can see it. Yet, at the outset of my journey it never was an initial thought. I just wanted to share and was really seeking to transcend the mundane. Orienting self with purpose and what I identified as my special place in the universe. I always felt my sense of purpose for incarnating was to serve and elevate vibration of planet, along with man's consciousness. To literally see it is euphoric, fulfilling, soul satiated, and encouraging.

 That is what it is about touching lives and making a difference. For me it is a labor of love. To be able to touch one life, to be able to reach one person makes it all worthwhile. Yet, to know you have touched hundreds, thousands, and more is humbling and moves me to continue moving in the spirit of my life, being only a symbol and sacrifice. It is solely from the people I receive empowerment. And it is to the people I say thank you. All of those reaching that one person.

When did you first realize you had something special in you?

I would say at an exceedingly early age it became clear. Especially in elementary school at Carnivals for drawings and elsewhere.  I always felt different and was not part of a crowd. Early on I heard things such as I was to be a minister or a calling on my life. Of course, during this period, I was not receptive of it or clear on how I wanted to leave my mark. 

Have you always been a curious person?

Yes! I have always been a curious being and imaginative. I had an attraction to words even though growing up I had a speech impediment. I have always had an attraction to art, and was amazed by phenomena of life by way of primary objects in the sky: the sun, moon, and stars. 

I would describe my curiosity as a natural inclination of why? Why does it work? The mechanics and metaphysical. For me curiosity was the fuel and wonderment the spark. The wonderment eventually becomes the drive. The wanting to know more or the reaching of new understanding to realize "hey I know nothing at all!" It keeps you going. Still to this present day my endearing mother repeats stories of looking for me in the neighborhood as a little boy who would wonder around. And how one time she found me at neighbor's home. And to her dismay she told me I had managed to get my big wheel and self over the fence. I would certainly describe myself as curious to say the least.

Through your books you have discussed issues like race, empowerment and spirituality. Was it an easy decision for you to share your thoughts with the world?

It was an easy decision for me to share it with the world. In fact, I came to deeply feel as if I were groomed for it. Even though a lot of my experiences were not easy. What allowed me to share was my interpretation of greatness through service. Early on my father baptized me in his altruistic spirit and sowed seeds in me to revere those who built their life on sacrifice. My father loved history and loved Black History even more. One of the core understandings I fashioned myself on was the only way to worship God is through care and maintenance of people and earth. Whatever we are bestowed with we are only functionary fiduciaries and the means of receiving is all measured on the giving. 

Knowledge is likened to the sun; it is not just for one man. Being a Black male whom honors African history pre-slavery to the present and roots tied to reading being proscribed, me being in special education in elementary school, overcoming prison, all were sources of empowerment and made it easy for me. It allowed me to understand the importance of breaking cycles. We are only reflections of one another's potential. So, it was especially important for me to share so that others who mirror me can see their full potential. I deem the greatest way to elevate ancestors is by breaking cycles and speaking truth. One of my favorite movies is A Wrinkle in Time and in its Ms. Which said, " some of our greatest fighters come from earth." I believe that! 

I think one of the big things I have seen from you is that you are not afraid to look for ways to help others, either in person or online. Why is that so important to you?

Because someone shared with me and it must be paid forward. Each one teach one. And often that is all it takes, is just a little help. Just speaking to someone can possibly restore their faith in humanity. For me it is a means of having internal peace and just being rooted in purpose. One thing I refuse to be is charged with dereliction. So, my only success lies in sharing. The vibration of my message the earth is attuned for and so is man during this healing process we are presently in. 

The connection between the mind and the body is something you have explored. Talk with us a bit about what you have discovered about the connection.

All that exists is energy, and man is a crystal. Man is the most diverse energy system there is. There is not any technology comparable to man’s nervous system. I describe as a crystal because all matter is light or energy which has become crystalized. In essence we are no more than atoms, photons, and like crystals we are only various lattices of light. 

Being on earth has granted all of us the chance of witnessing the greatest artist and mind of the phenomena of creation. The three creative forces of the creator or world is intention, thought, and will. In all the sacred text from The Holy Bible, The Holy Qur’an, Rig Veda, and The Book of the Dead. They all attest to creation beginning with word, with sound. What science refers to as the Big Bang. What esoteric knowledge refers to as the All as being Mental. Making these connections really for space inside of me to be created and memory accessed. Opening me up to spirit and intuition, which I have come to identify as the axis of man. 

As human beings we are a microcosm of the macrocosm: meaning we have a symbiotic bio reactive relationship with the organism of the universe. The same formula and force of creation is the same for man. Intention, thought, and will! Making this connection allowed me to give birth to Thought Healing and the Motto "healing is a thought away." Because every thought is a program and thoughts are magnetic. Our mind, body, and soul operate synchronistically like pearls. 

2020 was a year of challenges and new beginnings for many. How has your business and brand changed this year?

For me it was an optical year. Just clarifying: 2020 was 20/20 literally! It has creatively challenged and encouraged me to strongly pursue coding and interact with social media differently. 

What are you looking forward to next?

I seriously look forward to travelling all over the world and introducing the concept of a quantum life and increasing awareness of electropollution, which is number one form of pollution, and geopathic stress.

 

Any advice you want to share, Floyd, about the importance of going for your goals and dreams?

I think it is important to honor that by having an idea or a dream, that alone makes you distinct and successful. So many people do not have a dream. Hold on to your dream. And even guard your dream; only share it with those you know are positive and will potentially encourage you. So many lose out on their dreams to dream killers or to those who cannot comprehend it. Keep in mind it is your dream. Whatever your dream is, commit to it with perfect devotion. Become your dream so to say. Apply yourself, apply yourself, and apply yourself. Most importantly View things as lessons not losses, and you will never be defeated. 

Thanks for your time. How can our audience stay connected with you?

Thank you for the opportunity. My website is https://thoughthealing.info/ . You can also find me on Instagram at www.instagram.com/thoughthealing_info

TAKE TEN with author Walter G. Meyer

by Cyrus Webb

It's been a real pleasure to read author Walter G. Meyer's work over the years and see where he has taken us through his fiction. 

In 2020, however, he surprised and delighted readers with his latest book: a look at his life, adventures and lessons learned. It's called IF YOU WEREN’T HERE THIS WOULD NOT BE HAPPENING.

In this TAKE TEN we talk about the writing journey and the new book, and what it was like for him to open his life and experiences up to the world. 

Walter, it’s been great following you over the past few years. For those who are just discovering your work have you always known you wanted to write? 

I always wanted to write. From the time I could hold a pencil and make letters on a page, I wanted to write. I started writing short stories and children’s books to entertain myself at a young age. When I won a short story contest while in elementary school then started getting paid by the local paper to write articles for them when I was in ninth grade, I knew other people liked my work and I might be able to make a living writing.

·         The newest book IF YOU WEREN’T HERE THIS WOULD NOT BE HAPPENING takes us through some interesting snapshots of your life. How did it come about? 
IF YOU WEREN’T HERE THIS WOULD NOT BE HAPPENING came together pretty much by accident. Early in the Covid lock down, I responded to a friend’s post about Charlton Heston with a story about my brief crossing of paths with Mr. Heston. My comment started getting too long so I turned it into a post of my own. Which led to a post the next day about Shirley Jones. I found each story leading to another and since March, I have posted over 250 stories to Facebook. They were too long to be posts, but not quite blogs, since I wasn’t really blogging, so I coined the new term “plog” to describe them.

·         Was it easy for you to write about yourself?
So far it has been easy to tell the stories of my past. As I go on, I may delve into sadder parts of my life, but this volume of stories is mostly fun or unusual moments gleaned from my life, but doesn’t contain the bigger tragedies.

·         2020 was not the easiest year, especially for those in the creative community. Did you find that writing was something that helped you through it? 
One of the main things that helped me cope with the stresses of 2020 was escaping into my writing. Since I couldn’t travel at all this year, I was able to relive a lot of my past travels and adventures. To illustrate the stories as I posted them on Facebook, I went through many of the 9000 slides I had digitized and each one of them brought back memories, which was fun and allowed me to revisit some of the places I have been and people I have known.

·         What was it like for you to look over some of your experiences, especially through pictures?  Looking at the photos from my adventures brought back floods of memories. Some, strangely, I had no memory of the photo being taken or where it was. I guess it is a good thing that I have had so many adventures that I can’t even remember them all. Each story I would write or photo I’d examine would bring back memories of other moments from my past. If this volume sells well enough to justify more books, I have quite a few more books.

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   I have to say it wasn’t until reading the book that I discovered you came to Los Angeles to be a screenwriter.  A lot of people have made trips to Los Angeles and New York City in search of their big break. What has that been like for you to see the twists and turns that you’ve experienced since that time? 
If I had made it as a screenwriter soon after I arrived in Los Angeles, needless to say, my life would be very different. That would have been nice, and I still would like to see some of my scripts produced instead of just optioned, but if I had I would have missed out on so many other moments and opportunities. Many of the stories in the book cover the odd jobs I have had from working in a bookstore to teaching comedy traffic school to freelancing for magazines. None of that would have happened if my scripts had sold right away.

·         Social media was the lifeline to a lot of the world in 2020. How did the way you choose to use it change if at all? 
With the world shut down for so much of 2020, I found Facebook and Instagram a great way to stay connected to friends. I was used to using social media and Skype and texting to keep in touch with friends and family far away, but what really changed this year was using modern technology to communicate with friends who live within walking distance, but with whom I could no longer hang out. We’d do happy hours and games online instead of in person as we normally would. I also found it a great way to share my stories and started building up a following for them on Facebook.

·         Speaking of changes, Walter, what about the world of writing and publishing?
You’ve seen some real advancements in the industry since your first book. How have you adapted to those changes? 
The publishing industry seems as muddled as it has been since the internet caused a seismic shift in the way books are produced and sold. I have had my books published by major publishers, medium ones, and very small ones and each route has its advantages and disadvantages. As the stories in my book illustrate, I been through a lot in my life and I have learned to adapt so I have had to adapt to many changes in the publishing industry and will just have to learn to adjust to those changes. With so few publishers controlling so much of the business, often they want to dictate terms to writers knowing there is so much competition to be one of the books they will release this year so often dealing with a smaller press can have its advantages.

·         It’s honestly difficult to read the new book and not see what seems to be your tenacity when it comes to life and life experiences. What do you think has helped you get to that place of comfort?  My life has been different from those of most people I know, that is for sure. Once I accepted that it was going to be different and stopped trying to fit into a “normal” path, things got much easier. I no longer wasted time and effort trying to conform and just did my own thing. The other thing I had to learn was to accept where I was. Yes, I know I have made mistakes, and could look back at certain decisions when it probably would have worked out better had I made another choice, but I don’t have a time machine to make any changes now. In a business book I wrote that is set on a golf course, I had the main character say something that is part of my philosophy of life to the effect of, “I wish my golf ball weren’t sitting behind this rock, across a water hazard from the green—a green that I can’t even see because of the trees in my way—but it is. This is where my ball landed so as much as I would like to be someplace else, I have to play it from here.” Other than as life lessons to make better decisions next time, there is no point in looking back with anger or regrets. Writing all of these stories was a nice way of reflecting on all the awesome experiences I have had. It was not the course I had charted for myself when I finished college, but it has brought me to an interesting place.

·         Looking forward what are you looking forward to working on? 
Right now I am writing another book-for-hire, about an amateur bush pilot whose experiences make my adventures seem tame by comparison. Flying in the Arctic, he discovered one of the ships from the doomed expedition of Sir John Franklin--people have been searching for it for over 170 years. The pilot crashed a World War II dive bomber in the mountains of Arizona. Lots of wild adventures that are fun to write about. Then I really want to finish my 9/11 book in time for the twentieth anniversary of those terrible attacks.

·         Thanks for the time, Walter. How can our readers stay connected?
People can check out my website: WalterGMeyer.com or follow me on Instagram @waltergmeyer or twitter @waltergmeyer 

[Ask Mary Ellen] Making the Most of Choices: How?

 

Did you ever stop to consciously think about the number of choices you make day by day or even hour by hour or minute by minute?

Of course, most of your small choices are repetitive without any awareness of evening being made such as bathroom habits, brushing your teeth, making coffee or any of your routine choices to begin your day.

Most of these choices are ones that work for you to keep your life and your body working the way you want it to. We tend to neglect these small choices thinking it doesn’t matter how I get out of bed or if I thank God before my feet hit the floor. You don’t THINK these choices matter until

1.      You get out of bed without stretching first and hurt your back or twist your neck. Then “wake up call” Oh, I better start exercising or eating right! Or

2.      You have day after day of negativity because you wake up watching the news or viewing negative posts on social media.  Then “wake up call" might be a migraine or stomach issues or other diseases forcing you to wake up to be positive and thank God for another day!

These are simple small choices that when repeated day after day can either create the life you want or create a disastrous life you don’t want.

When you make the choice day after day to NOT take care of your body by eating incorrectly, not exercise or move your body, to not put cream on your skin to keep it moist, not brush your teeth 3 times a day, or you skip vitamins, herbs, antioxidants that will assist your body then you cannot expect your body to keep moving and working the way you want it to later in life!

In a similar way, when we keep treating each other with judgements, motives, expectations, disdain, criticizing everything then we cannot expect society to be better.

ALL of us must make choices from this moment on to become part of society’s solution, instead of continually criticizing and saying, it’s not my problem. Because when you say things like this YOU ARE THE PROBLEM or you are at least part of the problem.

Making good choices is the difference between achieving happiness and success or putting up with a life that is less than what you want.

The word choice is an action word requiring you to take action. Everything the smallest of details in your day-to-day life, to your future successes all depend on the choices you make NOW!

I once heard Anthony Robbins say, “Reasons won’t get you results decisions do, make a decision today to get the results you want! (Lit bulb) I like to substitute the word choices for decisions, as every choice you make is a conscious decision to create your life.

The key to creating success in any life is to think of far-reaching consequences. Are you eating correctly? Do you exercise? Are you aware of the many possible opportunities to advance your success on a daily basis? Are you still stuck in a past experience, blaming yourself for your error in judgment? How long are you going to allow 2020 to have an adverse effect on your life?

We are ALL beginning a New Year - 2021! Let us give thanks as We are the survivors and we now can make different choices! We can make choices to treat each other with kindness, compassion, dignity, honesty and understanding.

Whatever choices all of us decide to make, these choices will have future consequences. These consequences will not only affect our society, they will affect the world as we know it. So, before you make your next choice ask yourself, “how do I want to create my life? How can I make better choices? How can I become part of the solution? How can I leave the world a better place!

1. You can make good choices or you can allow “chance" to make choices for you. Either way you have no one to blame except yourself! When you choose to give your ability to choose away to society or someone else you cannot go back and blame them when that choice doesn’t work for you!
2. In 2021, I challenge All of us to take back ownership of our choices. Quit looking to blame someone else because your life isn’t working! Let us all choose happiness, forgiveness, kindness, generosity, compassion, encouragement, gratitude, peace of mind and success!

2020 was a year full of fear. It is over, gone, done! Let go of the fear that was 2020 as we ring in 2021 with a deep sense of unconditional love for every person, animal and wondrous beautiful thing making up planet Earth!

Be grateful for your life, friends, family, health, food to eat and clean water to drink. Become consciously aware of ALL the choices you make every day from the smallest of choices to big choices that direct your life. Let us teach these choices to our children and grandchildren, as we lead through becoming living examples of good choices!

In 2021, make good choices and consciously choose to become part of the solution, through all the good choices you make every day. By your living example of making good choices, you create opportunities for a successful future.

Happy New Year!

Sincerely with love,

Mary Ellen Ciganovich

www.askmaryellen.com

 

 

Rep Your City with Conversations: Jennifer Ann Smith (Queens, NY)

Rep Your City with Conversations

 

Name:   Jennifer Ann Smith, Esq. 

City/State:  Queens, NY (NYC)

How long have you lived in your city? I was born here, went to high school in nearby north NJ in Bergen County, left for college to go to the University of Michigan, and moved around the country to various military bases for a little bit but came back to NYC for law school.  Been back ever since!  Growing up in NYC, then in very different northern NJ, and then experiencing the military world and small towns across America all provided me with such varied perspectives and an opportunity to experience very different ways of life.  It also served to teach me and help me gain an understanding about what makes a community and how things like socioeconomics, urban planning, and discrimination can impact entire societies and groups of people in disparate ways.  

What makes your city special for you? NYC is a place where you can find and experience every culture and background within one small area.  You get to enjoy cuisines, art, history, culture, traditions, religions etc. from all over the world without leaving home.  Because NYC is inhabited by people from all over the world with all different backgrounds, experiences, and histories it brings a richness and diversity that you cannot find anywhere.   Queens, NY is believed to be THE most diverse place in the world in that more countries and backgrounds are represented here than in any other place.   Especially right now, when it is difficult and unsafe to travel, you can still learn and experience all sorts of cultures and backgrounds and celebrate diversity right here without having to hop on a plane.  

What is your city known for?   Diversity, activism, amazing food & entertainment, and as the city that never sleeps. 

Any best-kept secrets in your city?  The touristy areas are not the places to have real NYC food even though it is advertised as such.  The real food, pizza for example, isn't from a chain. It is from the mom and pop Italian places all over the city, and you won't find it near the tourist attractions. NYC of course has chain restaurants, but real NYers know that the best food here regardless of the type of cuisine is always the mom and pop local places where recipes have been handed down over generations and the owners/workers care and become part of the community.  There is also some really spectacular fine fining with tons of famous chefs all in one place.

   Another tip is to not limit your visit to just Manhattan.  There is so much history and amazing things to see in the rest of NYC (Queens, Brooklyn, Bronx). If you want to get some great views that aren't just an overpriced crowded touristy place like the top of the Empire State Building (which is still lovely but packed!) check out rooftop restaurants/bars especially at night such as The Westlight In Brooklyn or Ravel Hotel rooftop in Queens.  Amazing views! 

Favorite Restaurant:  Christos Greek Steakhouse in Astoria Queens, NY for delicious steaks, lobster mashed potatoes, drinks, and appetizers!   Also tasty, Pho Bac in Elmhurst Queens, NY for authentic, & fresh Vietnamese food.  The Westlight in Brooklyn for tasty bites and the most l incredible 360 degree views both inside and on their rooftop deck.   

Have a favorite 'home away from home' in your city you can share?  Julia's Beer & Wine Bar in Ridgewood Queens. It is that kind of tiny chill place to grab a drink and a tasty snack in an atmosphere where the staff become friends.  Also Domino Park in Brooklyn is a lovely place for a waterside picnic with a view.  

Why should people visit?  NYC has so much history and so much to impart to visitors. Everything has value in experiencing.  Museums, Art both in galleries and even on the street, restaurants, exhibits, monuments...there's so much to learn, see, and do.  Even just walking around and seeing the very different neighborhoods and boroughs there's something new around every corner.  In NYC, you get this unique experience of being able to experience cultures from all over the world which have been incorporated into the fabric of nyc and in many ways are just as much a NY experience as they are authentic and true to their origins.  

Photo: The Westlight Bar & Restaurant, Brooklyn, NY

[BOOK EXCERPT: S.T.O.R.I.E.S. by Tracy Carzell

 IV: The Pea Hens and the Gardener (2014)  Chapter 3

 Mrs. Harrell, Lillian and the lady downstairs were women who frequented 1099 Lawndale. I am not sure if they knew each other but in some way they were acquainted. I am certain they did not meet at Daddy’s annual birthday bashes which lasted for 3 days. They were too refined for that. The women who attended his parties were women he knew from work, women from the University of Pittsburgh, the neighborhood wives and a woman dressed in silver-sequins. She wore the same dress every year. Yet, Mrs. Harrell, Lillian and the lady downstairs had at least three things in common: my mom, the house and death.

Mrs. Harrell and her husband owned the building. They lived on Ferndale directly behind us. Mr. Harrell was exceedingly kind, always smiling and nodding as if to say he approved our playing. He was Mr. Harrell. He always wore a brown suit; hence the name, “Mr. Brown-upside-down”. 

I got in trouble for that, too. Nonetheless, I continued to exercise my dominion.

Mrs. Harrell was old like the building. However, she was petite and dark. Her voice revealed her darkness. It was not evil, only detached. Her voice was deep and authoritative. It mimicked her gait: quick and solid steps. Her carriage dismissed people as she walked: high head and eyes fixed on something far above and beyond the natural eye. Her gaze created an obligation to look forward and only for what she could see. 

Her hands were wrinkled but strong. I am sure they once knew hard work but now they had earned the soft pink colored gloves she often wore. Mrs. Harrell always wore nice Horne’s department store dresses. She was always dressed like Sunday: hat, square-heeled hard-bottom pointy-toed shoes, and gloves. 

Each week she would come to sit with my mother. Mommy invited her into the living room. The kitchen was not for Mrs. Harrell. There was a big blue chair that matched our sofa and Mrs. Harrell would sit there every visit. 

She sat nowhere else. 

The blue throne commanded her to expounded wisdom, self-mastery and spiritual realizations that only she and mommy could discuss. She was in her element, in her rightful place. 

She could sit nowhere else.   No other seat could hold her.

They would sit and talk for what seemed like hours. I would quietly hang around to see if mommy would offer her some tea and cookies. Mommy would put milk in their tea and they would talk some more. 

The bribe to stay quiet and polite was the Archway Lemon bars. Mmmm! They were Daddy’s cookies. No one was allowed to eat Daddy’s snacks except when he wasn’t around.

When Mrs. Harrell left, I would run to the cushy blue throne, plant my face in the cushion and take a deep whiff…

Yep!

Confirmed! 

Stinky, old lady!

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[FOOD] Honey's Perfect Pie Crust

 

THE PERFECT PIE CRUST

( this recipe makes two pie crust)

• 3 cups of flour

• 1 1/2 teaspoon of salt

• 1 cup of cold butter cut into small pieces

• 2 tablespoons of cold shortening also cut into small pieces

•4-6 tablespoons of ice cold water

In a large bowl sift flour and salt together until well combined now using your hands create a well in the middle of your flour  add in your butter and shortening using the tips of your fingers pinched together the flour and butter mixture's until the mixture resembles small piece now sprinkle at least 4 to 5 tablespoons of water over your flour mixture and continue to pinch together until the Dell begins to clump together now turned out out onto a lightly floured surface gently kneading  until the dog comes together (knead your dough together at least 3 to 4 times)

Divide your dough in half shape and flatten each half into a round disc wrap each disc with plastic wrap

Refrigerate and chill for 2 hours up to 2 days

• When you are ready to use your dough unwrapped pie dough place on a lightly floured surface and let stand until it reaches room temperature once your dough is softened sprinkle with a small amount of flour roll the dough out into a 12 inch circle and carefully fit it into a 9 inch deep dish pie plate or pan leaving small amount of dough overhanging so that you can trim it to perfectly fit your pie dish.

Once your dough is fitted to your pan feel free to brush on a small amount of melted butter before adding you're feeling to your pie shell for that extra flaky pie crust.

NOTE; If you don't want to do this recipe by hand simply add the flour and butter mixture into a food processor pulse 4 to 5 times until mixture is combined.

[FOOD] Honey's Southern Pecan Pie

 

Honey's Southern Pecan Pie • 1-1/2 cups of pecans divided ( 1/2 cup pecans finally crashed) ( 1/2 cup coarsely chopped) ( 1/2 whole) • deep dish pie crust • 3 large eggs at room temperature • 4 tablespoons of butter • 3/4 corn syrup • 1/4 cup Maple syrup • 3/4 cup light brown sugar • 4 heavy cream • 1 tablespoon flour • 1/2 teaspoon salt • 1 teaspoon vanilla flavor • a dash of nutmeg   In a large sauce pan on medium high heat melt butter add sugar. Consistently stir until sugar is dissolved be careful not to burn you sugar stir add your corn syrup bring to a light boil turn off the heat add heavy cream and 1/2 finely crushed pecans and flour stir well and allow to completely cool once your mixture is cool add your eggs (make sure you whip the eggs before adding into mixture adding 1 tablespoon of water to your eggs before whipping. Before adding this mixture to your piecrust brush on melted butter add your 1/2 cup of coarsely chopped pecans in the bottom of your pie crust now your mixture top with your whole pecans place on the middle rack in a preheated oven at 350° for 40 to 45 minutes allow to cool for 15 to 20 minutes this pie is delicious served at room temperature or chilled. Serve with ice cream or Cool Whip.   HONEY