There are so many misconceptions when it comes to men and communication. It's easy for us to say that men don't like to talk or express themselves, but the truth is that if the right atmosphere is provided, we will open up and say what's on our minds.
That's why the work that Coach Alphonso Short is doing matters. Through his podcast MANXCHANGE and the work he is doing, he is allowing individuals to tell their stories, share their journey and offer insights into the world we live in. With an anthology on the way and other projects in the works, Alphonso is establishing himself as the architect of a safe space where men can feel seen and heard.
Alphonso, we are glad to feature you as one of our Men on a Mission. What has it been like for you to know that the work you are doing in life is making a difference in the lives of others?
I’m really glad that my personal time, energy, and efforts have been a positive influence/impact in the lives of youth, young adults, adults, and families during a time period of approximately three decades.
When did you realize that serving others was something you were meant to do?
Around the ages of 10-12 years old, I realized that I enjoyed and was gifted to help others whether it was my peers in sports or academic studies, encouraging positive habits and thinking as well as having a deep concern, passion, and understanding of the importance of assisting my own family, senior citizens in my community. Most importantly, always being kind, courteous, and respectful towards everyone.
Who were some of the individuals you looked up to that showed you what was possible?
My biological family members (mother, grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins) along with a few school teachers, athletic coaches, spiritual leaders and friends.
How does it feel to be an example to other young men as to what is possible in life?
I feel it a privilege and pleasure to share my life experiences, relationships, challenges, and accomplishments as well as encourage others in their personal goals, dreams and aspirations.
Fear is one of the things that keep so many people stuck where they are. What has helped you to not allow fear to stop you?
My perspective about fear/failure is that it’s all temporary and the sooner you face “it” head on the sooner “it” is gone. My philosophy is “No Effort, No Results”.
With the new year here, many people are looking to commit to being a better version of themselves. What are you looking forward to achieving in 2026?
My goal in this new year is to make a committed effort to invest in as many people as possible in my life circle (both longtime and new acquaintances) to encourage and support them as they are striving in becoming a better version of themselves.
What advice do you have for other men when it comes to stepping up and making a difference in their community?
My advice to men in becoming active, supportive, and making a difference in their communities is to become informed of the challenges and needs in their own community (neighborhood watch groups, church groups, youth volunteer programs, mentoring opportunities, etc.
Most of all be consistent and accountable in whatever you plan to give your time of participation.
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