[TO YOU, FROM ME] How to Walk the Talk in 2026

 

'Don't talk about it. Be about it.'

We have all heard that saying or something like it. One of the most popular reminders is "actions speak louder than words." This tells us that it's not what we say or even what we intend to do that matters. It's our actions that count. 

That is what is guiding me this year and with every issue of Conversations Magazine that is coming your way in 2026. The time is out for just talking. In order to make a difference and to evoke real change, we have to roll up our sleeves and get to work. 

It is with that in mind that I present our first MEN ON A MISSION issue of Conversations. This idea came to me as I was beginning the new year. These men that we are profiling have been able to find success in their areas, and they are leading by example. 

Whether we're talking about notables like William Sanderson, Sean Ringgold or Cayman Kelly---or inspiring figures like Cousin Colby, Coach Alphonso Short and Suga Ray. All of these men have been able to deal with their personal challenges and empower others to do the same. 

This issue is also the kick-off for my new Amazon partnership called SOMETHING FOR GUYS. I have the privilege of working with over 200 brands, and we'll be using our magazine to showcase them for our readers or even for those looking for affordable gift ideas.

For us all the challenge is clear: will we continue just talking about what we're going to do or will we get to doing it? I hope these profiles inspire you to get off the sideline and get in the game. We need you. We're rooting for you. The time is now. 

Happy reading! 

Cyrus Webb, Editor-In-Chief

Conversations Magazine

Cousin Colby: Showcasing the HIDDEN SUPERPOWER that Can Set Us Free

by Cyrus Webb

It is so easy for us to accept all that we see as wrong. It takes real courage and reflection to see the journey we have been on and what we have done along the way. 

For Cousin Colby that road has been chronicled in the book HIDDEN SUPERPOWER---but it's not just about him. It's about us all. Through his platform Cousin Colby allows us to appreciate who we were created to be and give ourselves grace on the path of becoming. 

Cousin Colby, first of all congratulations on the success of your book Hidden Superpower. What has it been like for you to see how your transparency has impacted the lives of others?

It’s been humbling in the truest sense. When I wrote this book, I wasn’t trying to inspire. I was trying to survive, heal, and make sense of my own life. Seeing people tell me, “I felt seen,” or “I thought I was the only one,” reminds me that transparency isn’t weakness, it’s a bridge. The impact has shown me that when one person is brave enough to tell the truth, it gives others permission to do the same.

The book is quite personal, even though I know many people—including myself—can relate to so much of what you have written. Were you surprised at how much you ended up sharing on the page?

Honestly, yes. There were moments while writing where I paused and thought, “Is this too much?” But I realized healing doesn’t happen in fragments, it happens in fullness. I didn’t want to write a polished story; I wanted to write a real one. What surprised me most wasn’t how much I shared, but how necessary it was to share it in order for the message to be honest.

A lot of Hidden Superpower deals with the power of overcoming: overcoming grief, overcoming loss, and overcoming your own personal insecurities. Have you been able to give yourself credit for all that you have overcome in your life and celebrate where you are now?

That’s still a journey. For a long time, I was so focused on surviving the next moment that I never stopped to acknowledge how far I’d already come. Writing this book forced me to look back and say, “You’re still here, and that matters.” I’m learning to celebrate progress, not perfection, and to honor the strength it took to become who I am today.

 Forgiveness is a big part of the book as well. Talk with us about the role it has played in your healing and growth.

Forgiveness changed everything for me, not because it excused what happened, but because it released me from carrying it. I realized that unforgiveness was quietly costing me peace, clarity, and joy. Forgiveness became less about others and more about reclaiming myself. It didn’t erase the pain, but it stopped the pain from defining me.

With a new year comes new perspectives on us and the world. How do you hope Hidden Superpower helps the reader to realize what is possible for them?

I hope readers walk away understanding that their pain is not proof of failure, it’s proof of survival. I want them to see that what they’ve been through doesn’t disqualify them; it equips them. My hope is that the book helps people recognize that their story, even the broken parts, holds power, and that healing, growth, and purpose are still available to them.

 You also are using social media to share your message. What has it been like to see the way people around the world are responding?

It’s been surreal. Social media can feel noisy, but when people stop scrolling to say, “This helped me today,” it reminds me why I show up. I’ve connected with people from all walks of life who share the same core emotions, grief, hope, fear, resilience. It’s proof that healing is universal and that real stories still matter.

Thanks again for your time, Cousin Colby. How can our readers stay connected with you?

The best way to stay connected is through social media, @CousinColby across all platforms, or by visiting my website. I’m always sharing reflections, resources, and conversations centered on healing, growth, and purpose. This work isn’t just a book for me, it’s a community, and everyone is welcome.

MAN ON A MISSION: Carlos Walker, Artist/Author/Media Host/Speaker

by Cyrus Webb

In April 2025 I was introduced to the man who is Carlos Walker thanks to Instagram. 

I was immediately impressed not just by his drive and passion for his work, but his ability to connect and celebrate others. Carlos is making a name for himself by building a personal brand that empowers, educates and uplifts. 

Through his art work, his story and his determination, he is able to not just share what is possible. He's living it. 


 Carlos, it's been great watching you rise and shine. What has it been like for you to see how people are responding to your message and example of what is possible?

First, thank you for allowing me this opportunity.

It has been nothing short of amazing to realize that God can and will use you to share what He has given you with the world.

As I've mentioned before, I spent 13 years in prison, and knowing that my art and my book have inspired many is truly mind-blowing. It's a testament to what God can accomplish through you.

You have been in situations that could have caused you to give up on your dreams and even yourself. What helped you to keep going?

While in prison, I heard in my spirit that I would leave early, that the world would see my artwork, and that I would become a millionaire. At that moment, I believed these were promises from God. Over the past 12 years, I have gradually witnessed the first two promises come to fruition, reinforcing my faith in the process.

I always remind myself with a quote: "You can't tell a plant when to produce fruit." ~ Carlos Walker

I trust God and His promises, and I am dedicated to preparing myself for what's to come. Never give up, because even when it seems like things aren't working, they truly are.

I also take notice of others that have succeeded.

You have used the power of the written word and your art along with your mission. When did you realize the different ways you had to share your gifts with the world?

While sitting in prison, I realized that art was not just a gift or a hobby. It was my superpower. I understood that it had the potential to change the world.

I had the privilege of being a guest on your podcast. Tell us about how it started, and what it's been like for you to spotlight those making a difference.

It was truly an honor to host you. As an author myself, I felt it was a no-brainer to share the artistry of others. I understand that some focus solely on their own work, but there's an African proverb that says, "If you want to go fast, go alone; if you want to go far, go together."

I've learned that it costs me nothing to highlight other authors and those who have faced similar challenges and thrived. I'm grateful for the time I get to spend speaking with everyone; it's a blessing. I gain insights from each conversation and aim to share that inspiration with others to encourage them to write.

Social media has leveled the playing field in so many ways when it comes to outreach. How have you been able to leverage it when it comes to accomplishing your goals?

To God be the glory! You can reach almost anyone.

Because of it, my art has been displayed at The World Trade Center and featured in Mogul Magazine overseas. 

However, the greatest blessing has been the opportunity to reach people like you and interview fellow authors. Because of these connections, individuals I would have never reached have been exposed to my art, books, and voice.

I have greatly benefited from these experiences.

This issue of our magazine is focusing on men on a mission. What has it been like for you to show by example what is possible in life?

It has been my life's work to understand that we all go through journeys in life. Being able to be a success story and show others that God can use them, too, means the world to me.

I've come to realize that while you are the main character in your own life, you also play a supporting role in someone else's story. My mission is to inspire everyone to recognize that they have been chosen to be here and to use their lives to inspire others during their time on this earth.

What are you looking forward to in 2026?

I just made the biggest purchase of my career, acquiring 10,000 copies of my first book, "What If." I'm eager to sell them all and inspire more people to dream big.

I'm also looking to get my Rap/Poetry Debate into the mainstream. Where people can really see the talents of all of our artist in a different way. A more constructive way. I truly believe that this will be my best year yet, and I'm excited to see God show up and show out.

Carlos, what advice would you give to others when it comes to not giving up on themselves, regardless of how difficult things might seem?

The best way that I can tell you is if God gave you an idea treat it like a plant. Work it 'til you see fruit. It's called the fruit of your labor. When you stop watering and taking care of the plant, the plant dies and so will the dream. Keep going and trust God, and the idea that was given. 

Thank you for your time and all you do, Carlos. How can our readers stay connected with you?

They can find me on IG @walkers_gallery2 and YouTube @walkersgallery

I want to thank you Cyrus for giving me the opportunity to share and inspire. It's an honor knowing you.

Get WHAT IF by Carlos Walker on Amazon. 

MAN ON A MISSION: Ezzy, DJ/Media Host/Entrepreneur

 

by Cyrus Webb

Some people just have IT. Ezzy is one of those people. 

As an acclaimed DJ, media personality and entrepreneur, he has carved out his own lane and showed by example what you can achieve with hard work and dedication. 

It's been great over the years to watch him rise and shine---and create opportunities for others along the way. 

Ezzy, you have made a name for yourself in your community through the arts and entertainment. What has it been like to reflect on the impact you’ve been able to make?

Cyrus, it has been 25 years in the entertainment industry and approximately 15 years in the media space. It certainly feels great to be able to make people happy through music and shine the light on our small and local heroes in our communities, while helping others turn their dreams into a reality in media. 

Have you always known that entertaining was something you wanted to do or was meant to do?

I did not see any of this happening. I’ve always had a very strong passion for music, but I didn’t think about anything except the love of music.  I thought that I’d be a meteorologist because I love geography. If I wasn't doing this maybe I’d be telling you about the weather on TV or something. 

Your talents have taken you literally around the world. Tell us about one of the wow moments you have had so far. 

That would have to be the opportunity to DJ in front of over 50,000 people. I saw the crowd, but I did not know the estimated number until after the event. 

Outside of entertaining, you have created a platform to showcase the talents and skills of others as well as causes that are important. What sparked what is now Ezzy Spotlight?

Well, I was given the opportunity to become a DJ and radio personality by two people. Being on many different stages and on air in the studio has opened my eyes to the many other talents that are out there, but they may never get those opportunities. Hence the creation of Ezzy Spotlight. Let’s showcase these hidden gems. Also, being raised in a third world country was not easy. But, when a disaster strikes, I use my voice and my platform to help where possible.

We have both benefited from social media. How has it helped you to reach new audiences and amplify your work?

Yes, we have. Social media has given me the ability to show the receipts of my work, the type of events I do and quality of my presentation. As a result, I’ve had the opportunity to work with many different cultures and celebrities, consistently. Some of the celebrities include Brian McKnight, Robin Thicke, Blanco Brown, KC and the Sunshine Band, Leann Rimes, just to name a few.   

We are living in interesting times. What keeps you grounded and focused, even when challenges come your way?

Understanding the industry, being dependent on myself only, and sacrificing short-term pleasure for long-term growth were all very helpful. But my resilience to overcome the challenges was a major factor in being humbled and focused. Some people were broken down in the process. I’ve learned to pick myself up each time with a smile.  

What is something you’re looking forward to this year we should be on the lookout for? 

I’m looking forward to connecting with some gems who continue to positively contribute to the world as often as time allows.  I also hope to be on a stage somewhere with 100,000+ people. I’m ready for it. 

Ezzy, what advice do you have for others when it comes to pursuing their goals and dreams?

Be consistent, patient, professional, humble and pray every day. Avoid negative situations and distractions. 

Thanks for all you do, man. It’s been great watching you rise. How can our audience stay connected with you? 

Follow me and subscribe @EzzySpollight or visit EzzySpotlight.com. 

Christopher Thurman: Quietly Making his Mark, One Day at a Time

 by Cyrus Webb

Christopher Thurman is proof that you don't have to be the loudest in order to make a difference. 

As one-half of the podcast GRACEFUL GATHERINGS WITH THE THURMANS with his wife Kate and co-founder of the non-profit Angelically Blessed, he is showing that you can do great things no matter where you are, one day at a time. 

Though his wife has been out front and center with the brand in the past, in 2026 Christopher is stepping out on his own, releasing his own book and sharing his message of inspiration and hope with others. 

 

Chris, we are glad to be featuring you as one of our MEN ON A MISSION. What has it been like knowing your work is making a difference?

It’s humbling. Knowing God can use my life and experiences to help someone else reminds me that my purpose is bigger than me and that the work truly matters.

 
When did you realize serving others was your calling?

That's a good question. I believed I realized it when I saw that serving others brought more fulfillment than anything I did for myself. It felt natural, and I knew it was part of my calling and what I was meant to do.

 
Things can get hectic at times. Who inspired you along the way?

Family, mentors, and faith-filled leaders, but above all, Jesus Christ has been my greatest example of servant leadership.

 
One of the things you have been able to do is showcase how we as men can make a difference. How does it feel to be an example to other young men?

It’s an honor and a responsibility. If my life shows that growth and purpose are possible, then it’s worth it.

 What has helped you not let fear stop you?

My faith. Knowing fear doesn’t come from God helps me move forward even when things feel uncertain.

 What are you looking forward to achieving in 2026?

I am looking forward to continued growth spiritually and personally while expanding my impact and walking boldly in what God has called me to do. I am also looking forward to releasing my first book. 

 What advice do you have for other men?

The advice I would give is this: Start where you are and stay consistent. You don’t need a title to make a difference  just a willing heart. Don't think you have to do everything all at one. Be consistent, doing a little each day, and you'll see the hard work pay off. 

 

How can readers stay connected with you?

You can connect with me on social media and through email:

• LinkedIn: Christopher Thurman

• Facebook: Christopher Thurman

• Instagram: @thechristhurman

• YouTube: Meet the Thurman

• Email: angelicallyblessed0811@gmail.com

• Phone: +1 (770) 810-5823

Coach Alphonso Short: Creating a Safe Space for Men to be Seen and Heard

 

by Cyrus Webb

There are so many misconceptions when it comes to men and communication. It's easy for us to say that men don't like to talk or express themselves, but the truth is that if the right atmosphere is provided, we will open up and say what's on our minds. 

That's why the work that Coach Alphonso Short is doing matters. Through his podcast MANXCHANGE and the work he is doing, he is allowing individuals to tell their stories, share their journey and offer insights into the world we live in. With an anthology on the way and other projects in the works, Alphonso is establishing himself as the architect of a safe space where men can feel seen and heard. 

Alphonso, we are glad to feature you as one of our Men on a Mission. What has it been like for you to know that the work you are doing in life is making a difference in the lives of others?

I’m really glad that my personal time, energy, and efforts have been a positive influence/impact in the lives of youth, young adults, adults, and families during a time period of approximately three decades. 

When did you realize that serving others was something you were meant to do?

Around the ages of 10-12 years old, I realized that I enjoyed and was gifted to help others whether it was my peers in sports or academic studies, encouraging positive habits and thinking as well as having a deep concern, passion, and understanding of the importance of assisting my own family, senior citizens in my community.  Most importantly, always being kind, courteous, and respectful towards everyone.

Who were some of the individuals you looked up to that showed you what was possible?

My biological family members (mother, grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins) along with a few school teachers, athletic coaches, spiritual leaders and friends. 

 How does it feel to be an example to other young men as to what is possible in life? 

I feel it a privilege and pleasure to share my life experiences, relationships, challenges, and accomplishments as well as encourage others in their personal goals, dreams and aspirations.

Fear is one of the things that keep so many people stuck where they are. What has helped you to not allow fear to stop you?

My perspective about fear/failure is that it’s all temporary and the sooner you face “it” head on the sooner “it” is gone. My philosophy is “No Effort, No Results”. 

With the new year here, many people are looking to commit to being a better version of themselves. What are you looking forward to achieving in 2026?

My goal in this new year is to make a committed effort to invest in as many people as possible in my life circle (both longtime and new acquaintances) to encourage and support them as they are striving in becoming a better version of themselves.

What advice do you have for other men when it comes to stepping up and making a difference in their community? 

My advice to men in becoming active, supportive, and making a difference in their communities is to become informed of the challenges and needs in their own community (neighborhood watch groups, church groups, youth volunteer programs, mentoring opportunities, etc.

Most of all be consistent and accountable in whatever you plan to give your time of participation.

Stay connected with Coach Short on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alphonso.short.7

Gil Birmingham: Walking in Purpose, Acting on Faith

by Cyrus Webb

The career of Gil Birmingham is one that is to be marveled.

Depending on what chapter of his journey you came in on, you were surely taken in by the way he embodies characters from project to project. For me, I got to really pay attention to him with the Twilight franchise. Most recently, audiences around the world have been captivated by him on Yellowstone.

As the show was coming to an end, I had the pleasure to spend some time with Gil talking about his career and success.

 Gil, it is a true honor to speak with you. I really appreciate the time.

Oh, it's my pleasure. Thank you for having me.

 It is my pleasure. Gil, you've been doing a lot of these interviews. I was watching your interview with Entertainment Tonight recently, and I love what you said there when you talked about where you are now, especially when it comes to this series (Yellowstone). You said it's the beginning of a new journey. What has it been like for you to reflect on this journey of your career and all the great roles you've been able to bring to life?

Well, you know, you can only really embrace each project as it comes, and you never really know the level of success or the viewership span that it might touch. We're just very grateful and I think our last season here was somewhat nostalgic and reminiscent of knowing such a great run of practically seven years of our lives together was going to come to an end. I’m very curious as to what the future journey might be. It’s been nothing but spectacular and awesome, and the fans have really made it such.

 That's right. Especially on social media. Gil, I felt the same thing with you and your career when it came to the Twilight Saga. That was something that really just kind of swept in and really took over so many different generations and interests. When you started with Yellowstone bringing the character Thomas Rainwater to life, did it feel like something special from the very beginning?

Well, I had done two other projects with the writer Taylor Sheridan, so I already had a sense of the great talents that he possessed. He actually mentioned Yellowstone to me during the filming of Hell or High Water. With the talent and exceptional writing, I just felt very thankful to be part of anything that he writes.

 Your career has been so remarkable in that you've been able to bring so many different types of characters to life along the way. Has that been part of the fun for you personally that you have been able to experience these different characters that are in different places and that have their own audiences?

It’s pretty special to enter into a created world that people are either in fantasy as Twilight was or real life drama as Yellowstone is. It’s just amazing. I don't know what the other word would be, but it's really an exceptional kind of experience to be able to be invited into… And for it to touch the public in such a massive way.

Gil, your appreciation is something that definitely comes through. You are also a person that really lets the work speak for itself. Is that something you've always known you wanted to do in your career?

That is really a great question. I think once you have a seriousness about the craft, you realize it's really the work that makes the difference. Then as an artist you don’t get distracted by the outside perspective or judgment. I think it permits me to really engage in the character as much as I can. When I do that hopefully it comes out the other end pretty good.