[TO YOU, FROM ME] How to Walk the Talk in 2026

 

'Don't talk about it. Be about it.'

We have all heard that saying or something like it. One of the most popular reminders is "actions speak louder than words." This tells us that it's not what we say or even what we intend to do that matters. It's our actions that count. 

That is what is guiding me this year and with every issue of Conversations Magazine that is coming your way in 2026. The time is out for just talking. In order to make a difference and to evoke real change, we have to roll up our sleeves and get to work. 

It is with that in mind that I present our first MEN ON A MISSION issue of Conversations. This idea came to me as I was beginning the new year. These men that we are profiling have been able to find success in their areas, and they are leading by example. 

Whether we're talking about notables like William Sanderson, Sean Ringgold or Cayman Kelly---or inspiring figures like Cousin Colby, Coach Alphonso Short and Suga Ray. All of these men have been able to deal with their personal challenges and empower others to do the same. 

This issue is also the kick-off for my new Amazon partnership called SOMETHING FOR GUYS. I have the privilege of working with over 200 brands, and we'll be using our magazine to showcase them for our readers or even for those looking for affordable gift ideas.

For us all the challenge is clear: will we continue just talking about what we're going to do or will we get to doing it? I hope these profiles inspire you to get off the sideline and get in the game. We need you. We're rooting for you. The time is now. 

Happy reading! 

Cyrus Webb, Editor-In-Chief

Conversations Magazine

Cousin Colby: Showcasing the HIDDEN SUPERPOWER that Can Set Us Free

by Cyrus Webb

It is so easy for us to accept all that we see as wrong. It takes real courage and reflection to see the journey we have been on and what we have done along the way. 

For Cousin Colby that road has been chronicled in the book HIDDEN SUPERPOWER---but it's not just about him. It's about us all. Through his platform Cousin Colby allows us to appreciate who we were created to be and give ourselves grace on the path of becoming. 

Cousin Colby, first of all congratulations on the success of your book Hidden Superpower. What has it been like for you to see how your transparency has impacted the lives of others?

It’s been humbling in the truest sense. When I wrote this book, I wasn’t trying to inspire. I was trying to survive, heal, and make sense of my own life. Seeing people tell me, “I felt seen,” or “I thought I was the only one,” reminds me that transparency isn’t weakness, it’s a bridge. The impact has shown me that when one person is brave enough to tell the truth, it gives others permission to do the same.

The book is quite personal, even though I know many people—including myself—can relate to so much of what you have written. Were you surprised at how much you ended up sharing on the page?

Honestly, yes. There were moments while writing where I paused and thought, “Is this too much?” But I realized healing doesn’t happen in fragments, it happens in fullness. I didn’t want to write a polished story; I wanted to write a real one. What surprised me most wasn’t how much I shared, but how necessary it was to share it in order for the message to be honest.

A lot of Hidden Superpower deals with the power of overcoming: overcoming grief, overcoming loss, and overcoming your own personal insecurities. Have you been able to give yourself credit for all that you have overcome in your life and celebrate where you are now?

That’s still a journey. For a long time, I was so focused on surviving the next moment that I never stopped to acknowledge how far I’d already come. Writing this book forced me to look back and say, “You’re still here, and that matters.” I’m learning to celebrate progress, not perfection, and to honor the strength it took to become who I am today.

 Forgiveness is a big part of the book as well. Talk with us about the role it has played in your healing and growth.

Forgiveness changed everything for me, not because it excused what happened, but because it released me from carrying it. I realized that unforgiveness was quietly costing me peace, clarity, and joy. Forgiveness became less about others and more about reclaiming myself. It didn’t erase the pain, but it stopped the pain from defining me.

With a new year comes new perspectives on us and the world. How do you hope Hidden Superpower helps the reader to realize what is possible for them?

I hope readers walk away understanding that their pain is not proof of failure, it’s proof of survival. I want them to see that what they’ve been through doesn’t disqualify them; it equips them. My hope is that the book helps people recognize that their story, even the broken parts, holds power, and that healing, growth, and purpose are still available to them.

 You also are using social media to share your message. What has it been like to see the way people around the world are responding?

It’s been surreal. Social media can feel noisy, but when people stop scrolling to say, “This helped me today,” it reminds me why I show up. I’ve connected with people from all walks of life who share the same core emotions, grief, hope, fear, resilience. It’s proof that healing is universal and that real stories still matter.

Thanks again for your time, Cousin Colby. How can our readers stay connected with you?

The best way to stay connected is through social media, @CousinColby across all platforms, or by visiting my website. I’m always sharing reflections, resources, and conversations centered on healing, growth, and purpose. This work isn’t just a book for me, it’s a community, and everyone is welcome.

MAN ON A MISSION: Ezzy, DJ/Media Host/Entrepreneur

 

by Cyrus Webb

Some people just have IT. Ezzy is one of those people. 

As an acclaimed DJ, media personality and entrepreneur, he has carved out his own lane and showed by example what you can achieve with hard work and dedication. 

It's been great over the years to watch him rise and shine---and create opportunities for others along the way. 

Ezzy, you have made a name for yourself in your community through the arts and entertainment. What has it been like to reflect on the impact you’ve been able to make?

Cyrus, it has been 25 years in the entertainment industry and approximately 15 years in the media space. It certainly feels great to be able to make people happy through music and shine the light on our small and local heroes in our communities, while helping others turn their dreams into a reality in media. 

Have you always known that entertaining was something you wanted to do or was meant to do?

I did not see any of this happening. I’ve always had a very strong passion for music, but I didn’t think about anything except the love of music.  I thought that I’d be a meteorologist because I love geography. If I wasn't doing this maybe I’d be telling you about the weather on TV or something. 

Your talents have taken you literally around the world. Tell us about one of the wow moments you have had so far. 

That would have to be the opportunity to DJ in front of over 50,000 people. I saw the crowd, but I did not know the estimated number until after the event. 

Outside of entertaining, you have created a platform to showcase the talents and skills of others as well as causes that are important. What sparked what is now Ezzy Spotlight?

Well, I was given the opportunity to become a DJ and radio personality by two people. Being on many different stages and on air in the studio has opened my eyes to the many other talents that are out there, but they may never get those opportunities. Hence the creation of Ezzy Spotlight. Let’s showcase these hidden gems. Also, being raised in a third world country was not easy. But, when a disaster strikes, I use my voice and my platform to help where possible.

We have both benefited from social media. How has it helped you to reach new audiences and amplify your work?

Yes, we have. Social media has given me the ability to show the receipts of my work, the type of events I do and quality of my presentation. As a result, I’ve had the opportunity to work with many different cultures and celebrities, consistently. Some of the celebrities include Brian McKnight, Robin Thicke, Blanco Brown, KC and the Sunshine Band, Leann Rimes, just to name a few.   

We are living in interesting times. What keeps you grounded and focused, even when challenges come your way?

Understanding the industry, being dependent on myself only, and sacrificing short-term pleasure for long-term growth were all very helpful. But my resilience to overcome the challenges was a major factor in being humbled and focused. Some people were broken down in the process. I’ve learned to pick myself up each time with a smile.  

What is something you’re looking forward to this year we should be on the lookout for? 

I’m looking forward to connecting with some gems who continue to positively contribute to the world as often as time allows.  I also hope to be on a stage somewhere with 100,000+ people. I’m ready for it. 

Ezzy, what advice do you have for others when it comes to pursuing their goals and dreams?

Be consistent, patient, professional, humble and pray every day. Avoid negative situations and distractions. 

Thanks for all you do, man. It’s been great watching you rise. How can our audience stay connected with you? 

Follow me and subscribe @EzzySpollight or visit EzzySpotlight.com. 

Christopher Thurman: Quietly Making his Mark, One Day at a Time

 by Cyrus Webb

Christopher Thurman is proof that you don't have to be the loudest in order to make a difference. 

As one-half of the podcast GRACEFUL GATHERINGS WITH THE THURMANS with his wife Kate and co-founder of the non-profit Angelically Blessed, he is showing that you can do great things no matter where you are, one day at a time. 

Though his wife has been out front and center with the brand in the past, in 2026 Christopher is stepping out on his own, releasing his own book and sharing his message of inspiration and hope with others. 

 

Chris, we are glad to be featuring you as one of our MEN ON A MISSION. What has it been like knowing your work is making a difference?

It’s humbling. Knowing God can use my life and experiences to help someone else reminds me that my purpose is bigger than me and that the work truly matters.

 
When did you realize serving others was your calling?

That's a good question. I believed I realized it when I saw that serving others brought more fulfillment than anything I did for myself. It felt natural, and I knew it was part of my calling and what I was meant to do.

 
Things can get hectic at times. Who inspired you along the way?

Family, mentors, and faith-filled leaders, but above all, Jesus Christ has been my greatest example of servant leadership.

 
One of the things you have been able to do is showcase how we as men can make a difference. How does it feel to be an example to other young men?

It’s an honor and a responsibility. If my life shows that growth and purpose are possible, then it’s worth it.

 What has helped you not let fear stop you?

My faith. Knowing fear doesn’t come from God helps me move forward even when things feel uncertain.

 What are you looking forward to achieving in 2026?

I am looking forward to continued growth spiritually and personally while expanding my impact and walking boldly in what God has called me to do. I am also looking forward to releasing my first book. 

 What advice do you have for other men?

The advice I would give is this: Start where you are and stay consistent. You don’t need a title to make a difference  just a willing heart. Don't think you have to do everything all at one. Be consistent, doing a little each day, and you'll see the hard work pay off. 

 

How can readers stay connected with you?

You can connect with me on social media and through email:

• LinkedIn: Christopher Thurman

• Facebook: Christopher Thurman

• Instagram: @thechristhurman

• YouTube: Meet the Thurman

• Email: angelicallyblessed0811@gmail.com

• Phone: +1 (770) 810-5823

Coach Alphonso Short: Creating a Safe Space for Men to be Seen and Heard

 

by Cyrus Webb

There are so many misconceptions when it comes to men and communication. It's easy for us to say that men don't like to talk or express themselves, but the truth is that if the right atmosphere is provided, we will open up and say what's on our minds. 

That's why the work that Coach Alphonso Short is doing matters. Through his podcast MANXCHANGE and the work he is doing, he is allowing individuals to tell their stories, share their journey and offer insights into the world we live in. With an anthology on the way and other projects in the works, Alphonso is establishing himself as the architect of a safe space where men can feel seen and heard. 

Alphonso, we are glad to feature you as one of our Men on a Mission. What has it been like for you to know that the work you are doing in life is making a difference in the lives of others?

I’m really glad that my personal time, energy, and efforts have been a positive influence/impact in the lives of youth, young adults, adults, and families during a time period of approximately three decades. 

When did you realize that serving others was something you were meant to do?

Around the ages of 10-12 years old, I realized that I enjoyed and was gifted to help others whether it was my peers in sports or academic studies, encouraging positive habits and thinking as well as having a deep concern, passion, and understanding of the importance of assisting my own family, senior citizens in my community.  Most importantly, always being kind, courteous, and respectful towards everyone.

Who were some of the individuals you looked up to that showed you what was possible?

My biological family members (mother, grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins) along with a few school teachers, athletic coaches, spiritual leaders and friends. 

 How does it feel to be an example to other young men as to what is possible in life? 

I feel it a privilege and pleasure to share my life experiences, relationships, challenges, and accomplishments as well as encourage others in their personal goals, dreams and aspirations.

Fear is one of the things that keep so many people stuck where they are. What has helped you to not allow fear to stop you?

My perspective about fear/failure is that it’s all temporary and the sooner you face “it” head on the sooner “it” is gone. My philosophy is “No Effort, No Results”. 

With the new year here, many people are looking to commit to being a better version of themselves. What are you looking forward to achieving in 2026?

My goal in this new year is to make a committed effort to invest in as many people as possible in my life circle (both longtime and new acquaintances) to encourage and support them as they are striving in becoming a better version of themselves.

What advice do you have for other men when it comes to stepping up and making a difference in their community? 

My advice to men in becoming active, supportive, and making a difference in their communities is to become informed of the challenges and needs in their own community (neighborhood watch groups, church groups, youth volunteer programs, mentoring opportunities, etc.

Most of all be consistent and accountable in whatever you plan to give your time of participation.

Stay connected with Coach Short on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alphonso.short.7

Gil Birmingham: Walking in Purpose, Acting on Faith

by Cyrus Webb

The career of Gil Birmingham is one that is to be marveled.

Depending on what chapter of his journey you came in on, you were surely taken in by the way he embodies characters from project to project. For me, I got to really pay attention to him with the Twilight franchise. Most recently, audiences around the world have been captivated by him on Yellowstone.

As the show was coming to an end, I had the pleasure to spend some time with Gil talking about his career and success.

 Gil, it is a true honor to speak with you. I really appreciate the time.

Oh, it's my pleasure. Thank you for having me.

 It is my pleasure. Gil, you've been doing a lot of these interviews. I was watching your interview with Entertainment Tonight recently, and I love what you said there when you talked about where you are now, especially when it comes to this series (Yellowstone). You said it's the beginning of a new journey. What has it been like for you to reflect on this journey of your career and all the great roles you've been able to bring to life?

Well, you know, you can only really embrace each project as it comes, and you never really know the level of success or the viewership span that it might touch. We're just very grateful and I think our last season here was somewhat nostalgic and reminiscent of knowing such a great run of practically seven years of our lives together was going to come to an end. I’m very curious as to what the future journey might be. It’s been nothing but spectacular and awesome, and the fans have really made it such.

 That's right. Especially on social media. Gil, I felt the same thing with you and your career when it came to the Twilight Saga. That was something that really just kind of swept in and really took over so many different generations and interests. When you started with Yellowstone bringing the character Thomas Rainwater to life, did it feel like something special from the very beginning?

Well, I had done two other projects with the writer Taylor Sheridan, so I already had a sense of the great talents that he possessed. He actually mentioned Yellowstone to me during the filming of Hell or High Water. With the talent and exceptional writing, I just felt very thankful to be part of anything that he writes.

 Your career has been so remarkable in that you've been able to bring so many different types of characters to life along the way. Has that been part of the fun for you personally that you have been able to experience these different characters that are in different places and that have their own audiences?

It’s pretty special to enter into a created world that people are either in fantasy as Twilight was or real life drama as Yellowstone is. It’s just amazing. I don't know what the other word would be, but it's really an exceptional kind of experience to be able to be invited into… And for it to touch the public in such a massive way.

Gil, your appreciation is something that definitely comes through. You are also a person that really lets the work speak for itself. Is that something you've always known you wanted to do in your career?

That is really a great question. I think once you have a seriousness about the craft, you realize it's really the work that makes the difference. Then as an artist you don’t get distracted by the outside perspective or judgment. I think it permits me to really engage in the character as much as I can. When I do that hopefully it comes out the other end pretty good.

 

Fonz Brown: Staying Consistent with his Eyes on the Prize

by Cyrus Webb

Fonz, it's been great watching you build your brand and making a difference in your community the way you have. You've been succeeding, both personally and professionally. What has it been like for you to look back on all you have been able to achieve as we're going into a new year?

First off, man, thanks for the opportunity to be interviewed on your platform. Looking back on all I've been able to do, I think I've been blessed to have great people around me and great people to work with. I love networking and trying to find the common denominator between whoever I'm working with to be able to accomplish the goal.  It's been a heck of a ride. Coming from where I come from and doing what I used to do to being able to do what I'm doing now, it's really a blessing.

Fonz, I first got a chance to interview you in 2023 in Louisville, Kentucky during my visit there. One of the things you care about a lot is empowering the youth? Why is that so important to you?

I feel like you have to be able to reach these youngins' and be able to show them something different than what they see daily. At the end of the day, we have a lot of kids that are getting killed or trapped into the prison system due to bad decisions or just lack of good guidance or bad decisions. You know, something that took five minutes to do is costing them 15, 20 years of their life.

Being able to empower them and show them something that they could do, that they are good at is a blessing. Everybody's good at something. So it's just about taking the time to figure out what interests them and try to point them in the right direction whenever you get the opportunity. Empowering these kids is gonna be the way we change a lot of the stuff that is going on. 

You have a lot of them that are just following and mimicking what they see. They may have parents behind them and good people giving them good advice, but they're just choosing to make the wrong decisions to follow the in-crowd. But you also have those kids who are actually living and taking care of themselves and taking care of their siblings. So they have to do whatever it is they have to do out here in the streets, which is usually adapt to whatever's going on. So the people who are actually showing them and teaching them survival in the streets, is not giving the guidance that's truly needed to elevate them to any type of next level. That's where we have to come in. We have to empower them with whatever gifts they have, leading them in the right direction. 

I totally agree, Fonz. That's why what you do is so appreciated. Outside of your work in the community, though, you also are a person that believes in style and loves fashion. Where did that passion come from?

As far as the fashion, I've been doing this for a while now, but there was a time growing up where I didn't have all the things that was needed to actually look fashionable, you know? So as I got older, I started paying attention to more of the fashion and being able to put pieces together. That was just something that kind of came to me, but it really took a turn to a whole other level when I actually met my wife and she was so much into fashion that it made me pay that much more attention. 

We started watching a lot of fashion shows together. I actually was in the midst of putting together a fashion show when I met her, and we just talked about fashion and all types of different stuff. Then I actually got to see her closet, which was amazing. The way she actually put together different outfits was really something. We then started to coordinate and style with each other, that took it to new heights. 

As for my own personal style, I just try to make sure I stay clean, stay fresh and make sure I'm ready. If you stay ready, you don't gotta get ready, so just being able to make sure that I look the part of what is going on is important to me. 

That goes into my next question for you, Fonz. One of the things I respect about you a lot is that you are not afraid to blaze your own trail. What helped you to have the confidence and belief in yourself to do that?

There were a lot of people who didn't believe in me. I had a lot of opportunities to get with people, sit with people, talk with people, show people my vision and try to explain things that I was trying to put together. I was getting a lot of doors closed on me, but it just only fed my fire even more for me to just keep going and keep doing what I do. A no doesn't stop me. It only ignites me even more. It makes me figure out a way to actually do what I'm trying to do. 

You have to be able to take rejection, you know what I'm saying? Rejection builds your confidence as well. It's either you gonna take the rejection and tuck your tail and run home because you got rejected, or you're going to actually man up even more, stick your chest back out there and try to make it happen. You just can't be afraid of rejection. I've never been one to be afraid to get a no. I've been consistent and persistent, and I've seen how that works when you are not just trying once or twice but you are really adamant about making sure that whatever it is you're trying to do gets accomplished. 

Supporting the community and giving back is also something I've seen you do. What has it been like to hear from others how much they appreciate your efforts to make a difference in the lives of others?

As far as hearing from others I've helped in the community, one of the things that I always let them know is that it's not just me. I accept a thank you, but I tell them it takes a team to do the things that I do. Whatever project that I'm focusing on and putting my mind to do, I sit down and I find the people who have the same vision as me. People who don't mind really getting their hands dirty and putting boots on the ground and doing whatever's necessary for us to actually pull off whatever we need to do. Finding those individuals is really the key to the success, so I really can't take all of the credit.

That leads to talking about networking. Networking is also something you're big on. How has it helped you to not only connect with like-minded individuals while also being the bridge for others to connect with them, too?

Networking is something that I feel like more people need to take advantage of. I come from backgrounds where we had to do things on the street and network in one way, but when you can actually transform and start getting around people who can actually help your cause and you all can help each other some way, shape or form---that's also a great form of growth. 

Being able to take the time to find the people who understand my vision and I understand theirs, and we find a common ground to get something done, man, that's always a beautiful thing. And you just never know where you may or who you may come across when you're actually putting yourself in the positions and in the locations to be able to network. Just being in the room is the biggest thing, making sure that you are sometimes just a fly on the wall and sometimes you gotta know when to speak up and say, 'Hey, I'm such and such. How are you doing? I do this...' That's what it's all about: networking and connecting the dots with people who wanna see you succeed just as much as you wanna see them succeed. 

What is one of the things you are the most proud of, Fonz, when you look at your achievements so far?

When I look back on my achievements, one of the things I'm most proud of is knowing that I have had a hand in helping people in a major way in our community from clothes to shoes, to pillows, to food and even monetarily. I'm proud that I have been a part of it and the face of it, the idea of it...and to know that people actually believe in me and the things that I do, 

I also had the privilege to get the key to the city. I'm proud of that as well. To be recognized by my city means a lot. Like I said, I'm super humbled to have the type of people around me that believe in what I'm doing and wanna be a part of whatever I got going on. We achieve these things together. 

Any advice you want to share with our audience about the importance of not giving up on their goals and dreams?

Yeah, man. Nothing's gonna happen overnight. That's the first thing that they have to understand. You have to be able to follow your own vision, not be a copy of what someone else is already trying to do.

I also want to say there is no need to try to reinvent the wheel. Keep your blinders on. You also have to recognize your atmosphere. The people you are around:  are they helping you or are they hurting you? Are they holding you back? Make sure that everybody is on the same page. That's gonna be key. Never give up on whatever it is you're trying to do and make sure you stay consistent.

Thanks again, Fonz, for all you do. How can our audience stay connected with you?

Anyone that wants to chop it up with me can reach me on Facebook under Fonz Brown as well as on Instagram. Cyrus, I appreciate the opportunity to speak with you and your audience. Looking forward to doing it again. 

Actor (and now Author) William Sanderson: A Man with a Story to Tell

by Cyrus Webb

When I began reading William Sanderson's book YES, I'M THAT GUY I couldn't help but think of that tagline from a popular show that said "You think you know, but you have no idea..." There was so much about his life and career that I DIDN'T know that he opens up about, giving us a look at how he became the man we all have felt as though we know and love---and the journey to getting there.

In 2019 I also had the pleasure of interviewing Mr. Sanderson on Conversations LIVE the radio show. I asked him about the writing of the book and sharing his life with the world.  "I had some sleepless nights," he told me about writing and publishing the book. "I had some feelings of inadequacy, because I'm not a real writer. I had put down about 900 pages or so, and then I realized it's not very organized. I had to get some external help, a young man in Hollywood. I found I could talk with him and get my story out that way. My wife Sharon also helped me. It was also fun to get my words down there. It might be the stupidest thing I've ever done. It could be self sabotage. I get to thank people. I get to clarify a few things. So we'll see."

The book takes you into the moments that meant a lot to him growing up, especially the impact and growth of Elvis Presley---and the way he was drawn into the entertainment world and began working in the industry while fighting his own personal demons. In talking about Elvis he told me "When I was around him I'd keep my distance, but I loved his music. We all thought we knew Elvis, or we all think we know people, right? We find out later that we probably didn't know them as well as we thought. The saying is it's better not to meet your heroes, but I had a bunch of them. I got to meet a few of them, and most of them didn't let me down."

Sanderson shares openly about the danger he was to himself and though there have been amazing highs there have been some devastating lows that have accompanied him as well. "I still don't know the wisdom of it," he told me when it comes to sharing some of his darker moments. "What I was thinking is, my goodness, you got so many second chances it's a little bit of a minor miracle to do those things. But if you don't put something in a book that's disgraceful then you're probably lying."

When talking about readers of the book being inspired by his story he shared this: "Well, I don't think I was that noble at first, but after talking with a couple of people I think I can help someone. I want them to know that your dreams can come true. If you work hard and you have a little luck it pays off. It does take some guts. You will take a lot of rejection. It's a little scary." At the end of the day, though, he is thankful for the road. "What I feel great gratitude," he told me. "I'm just a character actor." 

At the end of the book you're able to see the body of work he has amassed, the stories that go along with it as well as the lessons he has learned that he is now able to impart to others. At times humorous, reflective and completely candid, this is the kind of book that anyone who wants to make an impact in the world should read. It reminds you of the importance of not just discovering your passion but learning yourself---and that can sometimes be the best reward.

Follow William Sanderson on Instagram at www.instagram.com/actor_william_sanderson. Get the book YES, I'M THAT GUY on Amazon.

Actor Sean Ringgold: Benefiting from Hard Work, Patience and God's Timing

by Cyrus Webb

Actor Sean Ringgold is a man that is not afraid of putting in the work, and now he is seeing the results pay off for him in a big way. We first connected in 2019 when he was on the hit show Family Business on BET.

In this conversation we talked about the success, the power of patience and relying on God’s timing in his career and life.

Sean, thanks for the time. We're just going to jump right into it.  What has that been like for you professionally to look at how things are lining up for you?

Oh man. I sometimes pinch myself and say it's all about God's patience and His will. I've also learned God will never give you more than you can handle. Everything that is happening is happening in it's divine order. It's funny: the people that you see in the beginning of your career you'll see through the middle and towards the end of your career. I've learned it's very important to nurture relationships and be respectful and never have that ego. Do the best you can on any job, no matter how small your character is, how medium, how big it starts to get. Have that certain level of humility.  If you do, the doors opening just keep going on and on.

People look at where you are now, Sean, and will say, ‘Wow, look at that.’ But they don't realize what it took to get there. Do you think your appreciation for the process in addition to the patience is kind of what helped you to be where you are today?

I definitely appreciate the process, because it gives me the gratitude for where I'm at. Some people get to a certain place in their career very fast, and they just feel like they got there all on their own. They forget about certain levels of rejection. Everyone has their own journey and their own path.

I just have extreme gratitude, and I'm enjoying the journey. And I love the rejection, because when you start reaping the fruits of your labor, you look back and you just never forget how challenging it was. You never forget. And I try to help motivate and inspire other actors who are coming up to be patient and to work hard and to have rhinoceros’ skin. Do not have thin skin in this business. You have to be able to take everything that comes with it. It's a lot of rejection, but the reward is unbelievable as you continue to keep moving forward.

Let’s talk about the importance of relationships, nurturing those and not burning bridges. Like you said, you never know what's going to happen. How has that lesson served you?

I think a lot of times people don't realize that you treat everyone with respect, because you never know who you're going to meet on this journey. You never know who's going to come back into your life. I would say it served me in an incredible and an incredible way. It's everything. It's probably more than half of my career.

You have to remember something, Cyrus. Everything that you want to obtain in this world is controlled by people. There's a book that changed my life that I read probably when I was about 17 years of age. It was called HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE by Dale Carnegie. That book changed my life. There's another good book called PERSONALITY PLUS. It talks about the different personality types.

Everything that we want to obtain has to do with our interacting with people. It seems like things are becoming more distant now, because we're going through computer screens and having less human interaction. But common courtesy, decency and respect are things that I've learned never to falter from. And it's very important to show everyone, whether it's the janitor, the PA, or people who are on their grind coming up the chain in the entertainment world courtesy, decency and respect.

Stay connected with Sean and what’s to come on Instagram at www.instagram.com/seanringgold.

MAN ON A MISSION: Antonio Knight, Fitness Trainer/Coach/Podcast Host

Antonio, thanks for being a part of our MEN ON A MISSION series. What has it been like to see the impact you have been able to have on the lives of others?

The impact I have on others is something I never plan, and whenever I hear I've helped someone along this journey called life, by being myself, it's truly a feeling one can't describe. It gives me motivation to keep being me!

I met you at the end of 2025. You told me then in our interview that you realized as a teen that you were someone who could encourage others. How has that shaped the way you look at challenges in life as well as possibilities?

Understanding who I am at an early age allowed me to see challenges as an opportunity to conquer what seemed impossible to some and be a blessing to those who may be going through what I've already experienced and overcome. I am constantly telling the story of never letting your situations dictate your outcome. 

We live in interesting times, Antonio. What is it that keeps you encouraged?

The thing that keeps me encouraged is knowing all the things I've been through were for my good along the way. And more than that, I'm a witness that God will see you through anything if one can believe, trust the process, and hold on to the purpose. 

Outside of what you do to motivate others, you are also using fitness to transform lives. How did that start?

Knowing my family history of sickness motivated me to do different things in life as it relates to exercising, eating, and being conscious about my fitness journey. So, wherever I've lived I made an effort to push fitness and healthy living in the communities. 

You’re definitely an example of how we can use our talents and skills for good. Has it been an easy thing for you to accept the responsibility of being a role model?

Being a role model had no added pressure to me, because I've never changed who I am to be who others wanted me to be. I'm just being myself. 

Thanks for the time, Antonio. How can our readers stay connected with you?
Thank you for the opportunity. I can be reached at the following:

IG @FreestyleFitness29

FB Antonio Knight 

www.freestylefitness29.com 

Dr. Victor White: Leading the Charge in Ensuring Children Aren't Left Behind in Education

by Cyrus Webb

We all know the importance of leading by example. For Dr. Victor White of Mississippi, it's not enough to say what we want to do when it comes to helping our children succeed. We have to lead the way in order for it to be possible. 

Through his many years in education, Victor has shown his commitment to giving the children around him the tools they need---while also understanding the importance of connecting the parents and the education system together to make sure the child doesn't fall through the cracks. 

He's a man on a mission, and by the looks of it, he's just getting started. 

Victor, we are glad to feature you as one of our Men on a Mission. What has it been like for you to know that the work you are doing in life is making a difference in the lives of others?

It’s both humbling and motivating. Knowing that the work I do has a positive impact on others reminds me that purpose is bigger than position or title. When I see students, educators, or families move forward because they felt supported or believed in, it reassures me that I’m walking in alignment with what I’m called to do.

When did you realize that serving others was something you were meant to do?

I realized it early in my career in education and counseling. I consistently found fulfillment not just in doing my job, but in advocating for people who needed someone in their corner. Over time, that calling became clearer service wasn’t just something I did, it was who I was becoming.

Who were some of the individuals you looked up to that showed you what was possible?

I was blessed to have mentors, educators, church leaders, and community figures who modeled integrity, consistency, and service. They didn’t just talk about making a difference, they lived it. Watching how they showed up for others taught me that impact is built through faithfulness and action over time.

How does it feel to be an example to other young men as to what is possible in life?

It’s an honor and a responsibility I don’t take lightly. If my journey can show young men that growth, education, leadership, and service are attainable—regardless of where you start—then I’m grateful. I want them to know that their background does not limit their future.

Fear is one of the things that keeps so many people stuck where they are. What has helped you to not allow fear to stop you?

What helped me most was understanding that fear often shows up right before growth. I learned to move forward despite uncertainty, trusting preparation, faith, and purpose. Progress doesn’t require perfection—it requires courage and consistency.

With the new year here, many people are looking to commit to being a better version of themselves. What are you looking forward to achieving in 2026?

In 2026, I’m focused on expanding impact—professionally, personally, and within the community. I look forward to strengthening Aspire Forward Consulting, supporting more schools and youth-serving organizations, and continuing to lead with intention, balance, and purpose.

What advice do you have for other men when it comes to stepping up and making a difference in their community?

Start where you are and be consistent. You don’t need a title to lead or a platform to serve. Show up, listen, and be willing to invest time and energy into others. Small acts of service, done consistently, create lasting change.

Thanks again for all you do. How can our readers stay connected with you?

Readers can stay connected with me through Aspire Forward Consulting, community events, and upcoming professional development initiatives. I’m always open to collaboration with individuals and organizations who share a commitment to uplifting others and building stronger communities.

To learn more about Dr. Victor White and the work of Aspire Forward Consulting, connect using the information below:

Aspire Forward Consulting, LLC

📧 Email: aspireforwardconsults@outlook.com

📍 Serving schools, youth programs, and organizations nationwide

For speaking engagements, professional development, counseling services, or community partnerships, Aspire Forward Consulting welcomes opportunities to collaborate in building stronger, student-centered systems.

AUTHOR PROFILE: Dr. Andrew Vassall, Creator of the COMPASSIONATE CRAYON SERIES

 by Cyrus Webb

Dr. Vassall, congratulations on the launch of your COMPASSIONATE CRAYON SERIES. What has it been like for you to reflect on the response to the first book, THE BLACK CRAYON?

Seeing the success of my first children's book, The Black Crayon, has been both humbling and affirming. Knowing that this book has sparked conversations, comforted young readers, and helped children feel seen reminds me why this work matters. This journey has strengthened my belief that stories can heal, empower, and create space for every child to recognize their value and voice.

You have made a name for yourself as a passionate educator. What led you to writing a series?

I have made a name for myself as a passionate educator by leading with empathy, purpose, and an unwavering belief in my students. Writing a series grew naturally from my work in the classroom, where I witnessed the untold stories my students carried with them every day. Their struggles, resilience, and strength inspired me to become a voice for experiences that are often overlooked or misunderstood. This series was born of a desire to honor their stories, validate their emotions, and remind every child that they are not alone and that their stories matter.

What I appreciated so much about the first book was the idea that all of us have a purpose and belong in the world. When did you realize your own purpose?

What I appreciated most about the first book was the message that every one of us has a purpose and a place where we belong in the world. I realized my own purpose while teaching in urban education when I saw and heard firsthand the struggles my students faced each day. Their stories, resilience, and need to be seen made it clear that my role went beyond teaching content. I was there to listen, to advocate, and to help them find their voice. That experience shaped my purpose and continues to guide the work I do both inside and outside the classroom.

Teaching in itself it a profession of service. What has it been like to see the impact you've been able to have both on students and other educators?

Seeing the impact of my work has been deeply meaningful. With students, it has been powerful to watch them grow not only academically, but also emotionally, gaining confidence, feeling seen, and realizing their own worth. Knowing that my presence and voice have helped them navigate challenges reminds me why this work matters. Equally rewarding has been the impact on other educators, especially in creating spaces where they feel encouraged, affirmed, and inspired to teach with authenticity and care. Being able to influence both students and fellow educators has reinforced my belief that service-driven teaching creates lasting change far beyond the classroom.

What should we expect next from the COMPASSIONATE CRAYON SERIES?

You can expect the Compassionate Crayon Series to continue growing as a meaningful collection of stories that celebrate identity, self-love, and social acceptance in a bright, colorful world. Each book will spotlight a different emotional or social experience that children often navigate, helping them see themselves reflected in the characters. The series is intentionally designed to support students in developing and demonstrating Social Emotional Learning (SEL) skills such as empathy, self-awareness, resilience, and kindness.

What do you hope young readers who either read the book or have it read to them get from THE BLACK CRAYON?

My hope for young readers who read The Black Crayon, or have it read to them, is that they develop a strong sense of self-awareness and self-identity. I want them to feel comfortable with who they are on the inside and to understand that their feelings, differences, and experiences matter. Above all, I hope the story helps children recognize their own value, embrace who they are with confidence, and know that they belong just as they are.

Thank you for all you do, Dr. Vassall. How can our readers stay connected with you?

Readers can stay connected with me by visiting my website at drandrewvassall.com, where I share updates, resources, and information about my work. You can also follow me on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok to stay engaged, join the conversation, and follow along on this journey.

You can get the first book in THE COMPASSIONATE CRAYON SERIES on Amazon. 

NeJcion: Creating His Own Space in Entertainment One Day at a Time

by Cyrus Webb

Slow and steady wins the race. 

We've all heard that saying, but NeJcion is living proof of it. I first got a chance to profile him in the pages of Conversations Magazine in 2012 with his music. Since then he has expanded his resume to include writing, producing, directing and even managing other talent. 

We talk about the journey, where he is and what's to come. 

NeJcion, it's been great watching you excel since we featured you 14 years ago in Conversations Magazine. What has it been like for you to reflect on your career? 

Wow that's a really long time ago! What I can say is I have faced so many challenges, but kept my eye on the goal and kept God at the front of it all! It's been really hard but worth it. My journey has built so much character in me.

You have done so much since we spoke in 2012. Back then it was all about music. Now you're directing movies and managing artists. Have you always known that you wanted to explore more in the entertainment industry outside of just creating music?
Funny you ask! I had no idea! You couldn't tell me I wasn't gonna be a RnB star back then. God had other plans for me, though, and I absolutely love what I do today in the film//entertainment/music executive and manager space. I get to be the change I want to see by putting people in the positions nobody believed in me to be in!

Speaking of that, 2025 was a big year for you when it came to movies. What was it like for you seeing your own film make it to the streaming services? 
I would say 2025 was an eye opening year for me. It sat me down while still seeing my hard work play out for the world to see! I endured so much in my personal life it almost kilt me, but God said not yet my child! I am just now beginning to really accept the gifts and blessings that my work has afforded me to see, and it's just beginning!

The entertainment industry has changed so much over the past decade. What has helped you to evolve?
Yes it has! I have grown so much just as a man and I have my journey to thank for it. I am so ready to see what's next in the entertainment space because it is forever changing.

You have also been able to surround yourself with people to help bring your visions to life. How important has that been for you to get to where you are today?
Having a team that is just as driven and effective as you are is the absolute best and has really helped me grow and push harder than ever before!

NeJcion, challenges come to all of us. So many have come and gone since you've been on the scene. What has kept it fun for you?
My passion and my drive and that little boy in me saying don't give up I need you!

Social media is one of the ways we are able to share our work with the world. What role has it played in sharing your music, movies and even the work of your clients?
I absolutely love it! I enjoy promoting and sharing my work so it affords me to be able to do it at my own pace.

Speaking of clients, having that trust placed in you when it comes to the role of a manager is huge. How does that feel to have others believe in you and help bring their vision to life?
I am a walking billboard for what it is my artists require. I have done it all, and it is all on display for them to see. I am driven, passionate and I execute at a high level with no excuses. I really do the work and I take pride in it.

What are you looking forward to this year that you can share with us?
I have more films coming in 2026, and I am super excited to have the world see them. My clients Chase Alexander, my boy band Aura and my R&B duo 2unik are all gearing up take over the music scene, so watch out!

Any advice you want to share with our readers about the importance of not giving up on their dreams?
Giving up on your dreams just means you never believed you could achieve them to begin with. I can say that my dreams are becoming my reality with every step I take towards my success. Stay the course!

Congratulations again, man, on your success. How can our readers stay connected with you? 

Thank you for the opportunity, Cyrus. They can follow me on everything @NeJcionthegreat

[Book Review] Cayman Kelly Shares What It Takes to Rise and Thrive

 FROM $6 AN HOUR TO A MILLION DOLLAR DREAM is NOT a book of what-ifs. In it Media Personality/Author Cayman Kelly shares what it takes to not just rise and thrive. The importance of the proper mindset, having a strong why and then the faith and determination to see it through to the end is also stressed. The book pushes the reader to not just say what they want, but see if their actions are going to mirror their words.

I love how he discusses the importance of not just minding your surroundings but realizing how where you are can affect what you do. With a great analogy dealing with flowers in a vase of water, he stresses how you can't just sit idly by and expect things to happen for you. Change encourages growth. And growing is something we should all want to do. 

Full of practical advice that allows us to join the discussion by writing our own story inside its pages, FROM $6 AN HOUR TO A MILLION DOLLAR DREAM gives us what we need to push on towards our goals. 

Get your copy of Amazon.