by Cyrus Webb
Sonya, first of all congratulations on “Sonya’s Little Book Of Quotes A Coffee Table Guide of
FIRE
Inspirations.”
What has it been like for you to see the response to the book?
Thank you. Also, thank you for allowing me to showcase
my book on your platform.
Since the book
launch of my FIRE
inspirations, my heart has been bursting with
pride and joy as I have turned my dream of becoming a published author into the
reality. During the past several weeks
my readers have contacted me via email, Facebook messenger as well as in-person
just to let me know how proud they are of me and my published works. Readers really enjoyed reading my FIRE inspirations
and emphasized how my bullet comments encouraged them to have a positive mindset.
Is inspiring others something you have always
wanted to do or felt led to do?
As a single parent
of two African American young men (my heartbeats) and a Retired United States
Army Chief Warrant Officer Five with over 26 years of active-duty military
service, I have always strived to be an inspiration to others. I always encourage my children, family,
friends, Soldiers and other to develop a positive mindset. My # 1 motivation to myself and to others is
always “so can you” because you can and you will get it done.
Talk with our readers about the meaning of FIRE
for you?
My inspirations were written with a purpose
which are centered around my tagline, “FIRE
Igniting the Joy and Love Within.”
BE
FEARLESS.
BE
INSPIRED.
BE
RESILIENT.
BE
EMPOWERED.
Each of my FIRE
Inspirations is showcased with
a color that represents my Authorpreneur Sonya Brand. BE FEARLESS
is represented by Magenta. BE INSPIRED is represented by Purple. BE RESILIENT
is represented by Red. BE EMPOWERED is represented by Yellow. My FIRE
Inspirations
are a reminder for me
to continue to live my best and blessed life.
My FIRE
Inspirations
are the chapter
names within Sonya’s
Little Book Of Quotes A
Coffee Table Guide of FIRE
Inspirations,”
and “Sonya’s Little Book Of Quotes A Coffee Table Guide of FIRE
Inspirations: For
Journaling.” Each chapter was written in an
attempt to help ignite the burning desire that is inside each of us. The bullet comments that follow each FIRE inspiration within the main guide is what enabled me to ignite my FIRE, change my mindset and get out of my own way.
One of the things you have written about is the
importance of self-love. How has that helped you in life?
Although
individuals may have quit on me, I am reminded to never quit on myself. This is why self-love is very important to
me. I am my #1 fan, because I will always love myself first. Therefore, it is important that I show up for
myself and cheer for myself. More
importantly, I will always ignite my FIRE and take a
chance on the Beautiful, Empowered, Triumphant Soldier Girl, that’s
me. So, as I continue to live my best
and blessed life I will always “BET” on me.
Has it been easy for you to embrace your role as
a coach, helping others on their own journey?
No, my journey to
embrace my role as a life-coach has not been easy. Simply because although change is inevitable,
some individuals are fearful of change. These
individuals have not chosen to be fearless
as they refuse to step out of their comfort zone and try something new. Individuals who appreciate lessons learned are
ready to be inspired as they forge
ahead on their life’s journey. Some individuals realize they need to be resilient in order to pursue their purpose with
passion. Whereas individuals with the be empowered
mindset are unstoppable champions in pursuit of their goals, dreams and
ambitions.
When did you realize that was a gift you had
been given?
Perhaps having the
gift came naturally for me. Especially
since the name Sonya has Ukrainian and Russian origins and means “wisdom.” Because of my natural wisdom and the belief
that a better day is coming, I always strive to maintain a positive mindset. By doing this, it allows me to continuously defy
my life’s obstacles by not becoming a statistic. Ultimately, my two heartbeats
are my “Why” I overcame many
obstacles. My FIRE inspirations are my “How” I overcame these
obstacles. My upcoming memoir entitled, “SHE IS
ME! Defying My Life’s Obstacles By Not
Becoming A Statistic, Book-I: The Struggle
Is Real and Book-II: Smile For Me” provides my “What” obstacles I overcame.
Speaking about your experience writing the book,
how did “Sonya’s Little Book Of
Quotes A Coffee Table Guide of FIRE
Inspirations” come
about?
Nikki, my cousin and my very first best friend, recommended
that I write my very own inspirational quote guide. Nikki enjoyed reading my FIRE Inspirations that are showcased on my social media platforms daily and
was motivated by them. Nikki believes others
will benefit from reading my FIRE Inspirations too.
When people finish reading the book what do you
hope it does for them?
After
reading “Sonya’s Little Book Of Quotes A Coffee Table Guide of FIRE
Inspirations” I hope readers are inspired to ignite their
burning FIRE and never lose focus on being their own best friend. I hope readers are encouraged to practice
mindful journaling by utilizing “Sonya’s Little Book Of Quotes A
Coffee Table Guide of FIRE
Inspirations: For Journaling.” Mindful
journaling will allow writers to be present and show up for their
emotions. The journaling guide will
allow writers to interpret my FIRE inspirations and write down their own personal thoughts and feelings without
interruptions.
Any advice you want to share for aspiring
writers out there?
The advice that I
share with aspiring writers is the same advice that I tell myself, which is,
“What are you afraid of? Tomorrow is not
promised. It is time to take the chance
on you.” I want writers to remember to
be grateful to those who tell you “NO!”
The “NO” will continue to force you to BE FEARLESS. BE
INSPIRED. BE RESILIENT. BE
EMPOWERED. You are in control of the outcome of “YOUR”
own destiny. Remember that “YOU”
hold the pen in your hand to write the future that God has planned for
you. So, it’s Go Time! Be fearless
and write your book.
Thanks for your time, Sonya. How can our readers
stay connected with you?
Readers
can connect with me via my social media platforms of LinkedIn, Facebook and
Instagram. However, the easiest way to
access my social media platforms, my Calendly and my website is via my Link
Tree URL at https://linktr.ee/sonyahowellbarrow.
Also,
if you would like to stay up to date on all of my upcoming book projects (solo
and collaborations), or if you would like to book an appointment with me or to
simply get a daily dose of my FIRE
Inspirations please visit my website at www.sonyahowellbarrow.com.