by Cyrus Webb
Melanie, first of all let me say I’m excited to be working with you this year. What has it been like to reflect on your journey as an author and speaker?
Reflecting on my journey as an author and speaker, I’m amazed by how far I’ve come. Writing has been my way of processing life’s challenges, transforming personal growth into powerful stories that inspire others and myself. As a speaker, I’ve seen firsthand how sharing my experiences can spark healing and change. Every book and every speech have reaffirmed my belief in the strength of the human spirit and the power of transformation. It’s a blessing to help others turn their struggles into strength, and that is what drives my passion every day.
When did you know that you had a gift that you were meant to share?
I first recognized my gift during my divorce, a time of pain and confusion. As I navigated that overwhelming period, I realized I could turn my struggles into something meaningful. Sharing my story helped me find strength in vulnerability, and I knew then that I was meant to help others facing similar challenges.
Whether speaking to a youth group or CEOs, or writing, I discovered the core message remained the same: we all face challenges, but with the right mindset, we can turn them into opportunities for growth. Each speaking opportunity reinforced my belief that we all have the power to overcome, rebuild, and thrive. My goal is always the same—to ignite that spark of possibility in others and show them that transformation is within their reach.
Believing in yourself is not easy. What has helped you to do it?
Believing in yourself is not always easy, but my faith and family have helped me do it. My strength comes from God, and I rely on the scripture, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me," to remind me that I am never alone. Through every challenge, my faith empowers me to keep going, knowing that God provides the strength I need. My family has also been a constant source of love and encouragement, helping me believe in myself even when I falter. Together, my faith and family have given me the courage to trust in my purpose and abilities.
I noticed when I was prepping for this chat with you that you have been connecting with organizations both online and offline. How does it feel to know that people are benefiting from your gifts?
It feels incredibly fulfilling to know that people are benefiting from the gifts I’ve been given. Whether connecting with organizations online or offline, it’s rewarding to see how my experiences, words, and guidance can help others find strength, healing, and clarity. There’s a deep sense of purpose in knowing that my journey—my faith, my lessons, and my stories—can make a difference in someone else’s life.
It’s humbling to witness the positive impact, especially when I see individuals or organizations shift their mindsets, overcome challenges, or rediscover their inner strength. The fact that my work resonates with people, helping them navigate their own journeys, confirms that I am exactly where I’m meant to be. This connection with others is what truly fuels my passion and reinforces my belief in the power of sharing one’s gifts with the world.
Connecting with like-minded individuals from around the world who are also passionate about
motivating others feels incredibly energizing and inspiring. It’s a reminder that we are all part of
a larger community with shared goals—helping others heal, grow, and thrive. These connections
affirm that the work I’m doing isn’t isolated; it’s part of a global movement of people committed to making a difference.
6. The book you and I connected with was And Your God Shall Be My God. What inspired it?
Mothers and daughters don't always see eye to eye, and at times, they may even become estranged. But despite these challenges, their bond should remain unbreakable. Even in moments of disagreement or distance, the foundation of love and shared history endures. This book And Your God Shall Be My God, was born from the understanding that mothers and daughters, while different in many ways, are still deeply connected by faith, love, and the desire to try and understand one another.
We may not always agree or understand each other’s paths, but we are each other’s keepers. In times of struggle or separation, it’s the prayer, the heartfelt moments of connection, and the faith we share that brings us back together. This book reflects that dynamic—how, even through adversity, the bond between mothers and daughters can be a source of strength, healing, and renewal. Through poems and prayers, it celebrates the love, wisdom, and support that continue to flow, even when life challenges us to grow and change. It’s a reminder that no matter how far apart we may feel, we are always bound by love, faith, and the willingness to grow together.
As we are starting a new year people set goals for themselves. What are you looking forward to in 2025?
In 2025, I’m excited to continue expanding my work through speaking engagements, which allow me to connect with others and inspire them in powerful ways. Whether I’m empowering mothers and daughters or sharing stories of resilience and growth, speaking allows me to touch lives and offer hope. Each speaking engagement is an opportunity to help others overcome their struggles and embrace their transformation.
Alongside my speaking efforts, I’m focused on growing Strengthen The Bond, creating the Bonding Box, and making progress on my trilogy All Suga Ain’t Sweet. I’m also committed to finishing other manuscripts that are close to my heart. Together, these initiatives align with my mission to help people heal, grow, and strengthen their connections, and I can’t wait to see where these efforts take me in 2025.
Any advice you want to share with our audience about the importance of believing in themselves?
Believing in yourself is the first step toward unlocking your true potential. It’s easy to get caught up in doubts, fears, and the opinions of others, but the truth is, your belief in yourself is what drives you to act, face challenges, and grow. When you trust in your abilities, even in uncertainty, you create space for opportunities, healing, and transformation.
Remember, your journey is unique, and there will be obstacles, but those obstacles are not roadblocks—they’re stepping stones. Each challenge you overcome builds your confidence and resilience. Surround yourself with people who uplift you, seek wisdom when needed, and always stay connected to your faith and purpose.
Believing in yourself doesn’t mean you won’t face setbacks; it means you’ll rise from them stronger and more determined. The most important thing is to keep moving forward, one step at a time, with faith in your strength and the knowledge that you are capable of more than you realize. Embrace your worth, your power, and your purpose—you have everything within you to achieve your dreams.
Thank you for your time, Melanie. How can our readers stay connected with you?
Thank you for having me! Readers can stay connected with me through my website,
MelanieDPhillips.com, where you can find out more about my work and upcoming projects. You can also connect with me on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/strengthenthebond, and on Facebook at Melanie RichardsonPhillips (no hyphen). If you prefer email, feel free to reach out to me at MelanieDPhillips1@gmail.com. I look forward to staying connected and continuing this journey together!
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