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Saturday, July 30, 2011

Conversations Magazine Presents Its "Model Citizens"

Conversations Magazine Presents Its "Model Citizens"


Good role models are hard to find, especially when you are talking about those who are there to show you what is possible with hard work and dedication. For Shadow Play Entertainment and our partners discovering your best self is one of our main goals, and recognizing those that are doing just that became the focus of this special edition of Conversations Magazine. (seen here is Nahid Samandari,55, of Valley Village, CA)

What is our definition of a Model Citizen? It's an individual who is working against all odds to pursue their dreams and are using their journey to encourage and inspire others. With Conversations' new segment you will find individuals of all ages, shapes and colors who are following their goals and being rewarded.

"I saw the addition of "Model Citizens" as a way for us to showcase ordinary individuals who are pursuing extraordinary paths," says Cyrus Webb, Editor-In-Chief of Conversations Magazine and President of Shadow Play Entertainment. "I think it's important that anyone, regardless of where they are from or what they look like, can find someone they can relate to that speaks to what they can do themselves."

That is the whole purpose of "Model Citizens". Beginning with the June/July issue of Conversations Magazine, five individuals from different walks of life will be featured each month. So many showed interested in the Model Citizen feature that Webb decided to devote a special issue of the magazine devoted exclusively to 50 individuals from different backgrounds that are moving forward with their dreams and offering advice for others who want to do the same. Included in those recognized are celebrated recording artists, actors, comedians and those on the rise. It's truly a reflection of the world that Conversations believes we want and can be attained.

This special edition is available now for only $7.99 (shipping included), however, will be free to those who already have a yearly subscription to Conversations Magazine. Distribution of the magazine begins August 15, 2011 as Webb and Conversations Magazine celebrates "Model Citizens Week." To find out more about Conversations Magazine visit www.conversationsmag.com. To get a closer look at the 50 individuals in the special Model Citizens edition visit www.conversationsmodelcitizens.com.

Interested in being featured in Conversations Magazine or advertising? Contact Cyrus Webb at cawebb4@juno.com or 601.896.5616.

"THROUGH MY EYES ONLY: The Marilyn Dixon Story"


by Cyrus Webb (August 2011 Conversations Magazine)

Everybody has a story, and at times it might feel as though no one else understands what we are going through in our own lives. The more time I spend talking with individuals and meeting new people, however, I realize just how untrue that is. Take for instance Florida native Marilyn Dixon. Her personal journey is one that included heartache, anger, disappointment yet a strong faith that has aided her in weathering storms that would have destroyed others.

For Marilyn, tragedy struck early in her life almost 40 years ago when her brother was killed in a traffic accident involving a police officer. Then earlier this year she had to face a blow that no parent should have to endure. On January 7, 2011 her 37 year old son Timothy was sentenced for robberies of drug stores. He was given a life sentence. "As a mother I was feeling empty, loss and hurt," she says. "I then began to question myself. I felt guilty that maybe I did something wrong as a mother. I replayed my choices in my son's life in my mind over and over again."

Timothy had started to get in trouble at an early age. Marilyn says he was a follower, someone who wanted to be a part of his step-brother's family. Around the age of 15 he began stealing cars. After facing misdemeanor charges he was put into a preventative program with hopes that he could be rehabilitated before it was too late. Instead his life seemed to spiral further out of control. He dropped out of school in the 9th grade at 16 years old.

Marilyn says this was not just because of the trouble he was getting into. "He always had a problem with learning," she says. "I took every step I could to make sure he could get an education. This is something that even her son acknowledged. "He told me 'Mama you did all you could,'" she recalls " 'It was me and the choices I made.'" This offered some consolation. "It helped some to hear him say that," Marilyn says, "but you always question if you could have done anything differently."

The cycle of bad behavior continued for years. Timothy was caught in possession of a gun at age 17, was arrested and sent to a juvenile facility. He stayed there about two and a half years. When it comes to analyzing what kept leading Timothy in the wrong direction, Marilyn says that among the factors was the environment in which her son found himself in. "There are more bad apples than good apples," she explained. "My son found himself around more followers than leaders."

2007 was year that brought more violence to their neighborhood and turmoil to Marilyn Dixon's family. In August 2007 a police officer was killed. There seemed to be few leads and no arrest was made. During that time there was also a string of drug store robberies taking place, and once again Marilyn's son Timothy was implicated.

When the latest trouble with her son came up, Marilyn went through the emotions that would be expected of a mother. "I was angry, hurt and in disbelief," she says, "but it hasn't stopped me. God had to help me to heal from this." After they had Timothy in custody for the drug store robberies, Marilyn told me that the police tried to get him to confess to the killing of the police officer. "At first an officer told me that Timothy confessed to killing the police officer," she says. When Marilyn went to the police station she asked her son what was going on. He told her that they wanted him to confess to the shooting. It was at that point that she knew the law was not on her side. "A detective later told me that Timothy hadn't confessed," says Marilyn, "but the detective told me that he was going to do everything in his power to make sure that they were able to put the shooting on him."

In spite of the life sentence that was delivered earlier this year, Marilyn still has hope that the last chapter of her son's life has not yet been written. "Recently a new investigator said that he didn't believe the police killing had anything to do with the drug store robberies," Marilyn said. This has given her hope, but it was a different story when she first heard of the connection that police were trying to make between the drug store robberies, the death of an officer and her son.

What does Marilyn hope you take away from her experiences and her upcoming book THROUGH MY EYES ONLY? She told me that she wants her story and her family's experiences to encourage someone and let them know that they are not the only one going through hard times. At a time when so much is geared towards the things that divide us, it's good to know that there are still people out there who are willing to use their experiences to benefit someone else.

Keep in contact with Marilyn Dixon on Facebook at www.tinyurl.com/marilyndixonstory.

Friday, July 29, 2011

Reality Star Bigg Marv Supports Troops In A Big Way


While much of the talk in Washington right now seems to be about who can make themselves look the best, reality star Bigg Marv is using his time and name recognition to bring attention to the dedication and sacrifice of America's military.

"I'm a military child myself," says the 35 year old star of A&E's HAMMERTIME and the upcoming series KINFOLKS. "My dad was in the Navy and I know what it's like to have your family away, not knowing if they are coming back."

On July 2, 2011 Bigg Marv hosted a concert at Ft. Hamilton in Brooklyn, NY that was a tribute to the soldiers and their families. One of the headliners for the event was singing superstar Ne-Yo.

This work on behalf of the troops is nothing new for Bigg Marv, though. "I started volunteering in my late teens early twenties," he says. This would be at the VA Hospital and with charity work that was benefiting the men and women of the Armed Forces.

When there is a debate in Washington that puts the financial stability of the troops and the family at risk, Bigg Marv says most of us don't understand the far-reaching consequences of it. "They are already giving so much," he says. "The least we can do is make sure they are taken care of and protected and not used as political pawns."

Look for Bigg Marv to be active in other events to support the military throughout the rest of the year and into 2012. You can keep up with his activities at www.twitter.com/biggmarv.

Monday, July 25, 2011

Conversations Magazine's August 2011 Issue Now Available

 Shadow Play Entertainment is pleased to announce the release of the August 2011 issue of Conversations Magazine.


"This issue highlights some of our greatest achievements," says Cyrus Webb, Editor-In-Chief of the publication and lead columnist. "You are getting the best of who we are as contributors as well as great individuals that you may have heard of but get to see in a totally different light."

Contributors for this issue include music editor Stanley Clark, bestselling author Tony Lindsay and Helene Weinberger. Though Webb wrote the majority of the articles he gives credit to those who told their stories to him for the issue coming out so well.

"You can't talk to people who don't want to be talked to," he says. "Everyone, though, that you will read in this issue wanted to share their story and the journey of their lives up until this point. I just get the opportunity to share that with all of you.

Thursday, July 21, 2011

The Two Martin Levins

by Cyrus Webb

They are two authors with the same first and last names and stories of inspiration and empowerment. Meet the two Martin Levins. I've had the opportunity to interview both authors on Conversations LIVE Radio, and now I get to introduce them and their books to you our readers.





WE WERE RELENTLESS by Martin J. Levin*
WE WERE RELENTLESS is an endearing account of one family's ability to deal with the challenges of life, especially when they literally hit home in their first child. Martin Levin gives an unfiltered look at what so many parents have to deal with, but don't have the voice to get the word out like he has in this powerful book. When their son Jordan is born not just premature but with a disability, there becomes more challenges to deal with and few options that seem to be at their disposal. What happens, though, not only showcases the importance of summoning the strength within yourself but realizing what can be impossible when the odds seem stacked against you.

The entire family unwittingly shows how we can be empowered to do so much good for others if we truly want to. It's not about the excuses we find easy to make but the decisions that are not easy but can have far-reaching effects. This book is a must-read for anyone who has family or friends with special needs or are going through a difficult moment. Reading about what the Levins had to do will showcase that with a little help we can all be victorious.

It's as Martin tells us in the book: "Miracles do happen. Perhaps some of them are a bit slower to happen than others." We just have to make up our minds that giving up is not option.

Find out more information about the book, the author and Jordan visit www.wewererelentless.com.






ALL I KNOW ABOUT MANAGEMENT I LEARNED FROM MY DOG by Martin P. Levin*
We often hear that dogs are man's best friend, but friendship is something that is definitely a two-way street. That is something that 92 year old Martin Levin learned as he befriended his dog Angel, who inspired the book ALL I KNOW ABOUT MANAGEMENT I LEARNED FROM MY DOG. You see, Angel was not just a pet. Levin quickly learned that if he wanted to get anywhere with her, he was going to have to take time to understand how to best interact with her. This lead the author to his four Golden Rules that he discusses in the book: 1) Trust and Leadership, 2) Communication, 3) Problem Solving and Decision Making and 4) Perseverance.

While the author applies these lessons that he learned from his dealings with Angel to management skills needed when dealing with those we work with and who might work for us, there is a larger application that needs to be explored. How many of us don't want to benefit from good communication, whether it is a friend, a mate or someone who interact with on a regular basis. When it comes to issues that arise in the home or in a relationship, aren't problem solving and decision making something we find necessary? And for parents, how important are trust and leadership in the home when it comes to dealing with children or those in your care? Finally the big one, PERSEVERANCE. Nothing can be truly accomplished in any aspect of our life if we give us. Martin Levin surely wouldn't have been able to share with us about his dealings with Angel if he had just given up. The same is true with us. If we give up in our dealings with each other no matter where they fall in our lives, we can't get anything done.

With a little something for everyone, ALL I KNOW ABOUT MANAGEMENT I LEARNED FROM MY DOG is something you should add to your reading list and your outlook on life.

For more information visit www.skyhorsepublishing.com.

* Both titles can be found on sale by visiting www.Amazon.com.

TAKE TEN: Author T. R. Foster


by Cyrus Webb

Author Tom "T. R." Foster knows how to tell a great story. I had the opportunity of interviewing the New York native on Conversations LIVE and he was able to share the events of his life that led him to his new path as a published author. You wouldn't know it unless he told you, but ANGELS OF VENICE is his first published novel--even thought it doesn't read like it. With an active imagination and characters that pop right off the page Foster shows himself to be someone skilled at drawing in his audience and holding them until the last page.

In this interview for Take Ten and Conversations Magazine he talks about how he got to this point, what message he hopes we take about from ANGELS and what's next for the man who has a lot to say.

Tom, your journey to being a published author is an interesting one. Before we get into your debut novel ANGELS OF VENICE, I want to talk about your love of creating. Can you share when you first became aware of your love of how things worked?

This is almost embarrassing, but my earliest memory of trying to figure out how something worked was probably when I was 4 or 5 years old.  I was curious about electric motors.  I imagined them as a collection of gears and wires.  Somehow sparks would spring from the end of a wire, hit the gear teeth and make them turn.  You know, like a transfer of momentum.  I've always had crazy ideas.  Not so good for science and engineering—but great for writing.

I think growing up to question things going on around us is almost a normal process. As a writer you do it more as you construct the storyline and the characters. Do you remember when you first started to write your thoughts down and how those around you percieved it?

Questioning things that are going around us maybe normal but too often we're satisfied with the superficial answer, the one that doesn't require much in the way of critical thinking.  If you're honest, writing will drive you to that critical level.  I first started to question my entire life when I was in college in the late '60s.  A lot going on then.  But it wasn't until I started writing—maybe twenty years ago—that the questioning became organized and focused.  Then my friends found out I wasn't as quiet and mild mannered as I appeared.  My early storylines and characters were dark and violent and have generally remained so, even in my most recent writing.  Why is this?  Or more to the point, why are we, as individuals and as a society, so fascinated by violence—even as we are repelled by it?  This is a question I keep going back to over and over.  I still don't have a good answer answer.

At the heart of ANGELS OF VENICE is the seen and unseen battle going on in the world between Good and Evil. For many this is not just a physical fight but a spirtiual one as well. What role would you say your view and personal ideals, when it comes to the issue of faith and the future, played in the writing of the book?

My personal view of the future (at the moment) is somewhat bleak, yet I don't doubt our survival.  Angels of Venice is certainly about good and evil, but it's also about choice.  Without giving away too much, the "Angels" give certain individuals tokens of friendship. With these tokens, people can accomplish anything they liked.  Do evil or do good.  And of course there's Eliza's choice at the end.  The balance between good and evil depends on our individual choices—on our free will.  It's my faith in the existence of free will in a world where choice does not always appear to be an option that really drove this book to completion.

For me one of the biggest reminders in your book is that all is not lost. There is good still around us. Is that something that developed organically in the story or was it one of the main lessons you hoped readers would glean from it?

I'd like to say it was an intended lesson but that would mean I know how my stories are going to turnout as I write them—which is never the case.  The key thing is to start with an honest problem and characters with real desires and emotions, then turn them loose.  So it's very much an organic thing.  In Angels of Venice most people are allowed choices based on their feeling and perceived needs, just as in real life.  Many of the choices turn out to be bad, but others are good or at least mixed.  So at the end of the story some good remains, as it must.  There is a continual dynamic and balance between good and evil in the real world because the whole process is driven by a multitude of personal choices.  I think this was of the main points to come out of Angels of Venice.

Writing can sometimes be a rather personal and lonely profession, Tom. What has it been like for you to get feedback about the book and how does that make you feel as you move forward in your literary career?

It's really cool to get compliments from readers.  I'm a big compliment junky—truth be told.  And while it shouldn't be the case, it is also a validation.  Almost anyone can write a set of good sentences.  Sentences that are grammatically correct with just the right number of nouns, adjectives and verbs.  But telling a story is an entirely different matter.  And very few can do it well.  So when you get it in your head that you can be a writer and create powerful visions from mere words, you're taking a big risk.  So that one positive review re-enforces the belief that you weren't deluding yourself.  You are a writer.   Now you're justified in writing another one—even though you were going to do it anyway.

Can you tell us what we can expect next from you?

The novel I'm finishing now is called Kool Blood.  Though it takes place twenty or thirty years in the future, I don't consider it science fiction.  It's more of a dark satirical commentary on the greed and violence that's so prevalent in our culture right now.  See?  There's violence question again!  I'm still trying to get an agent for it.  If that doesn't pan out, I will self publish it, hopefully by early fall.

Shifting gears just a bit, Tom, I want to ask you about the internet and how it has helped you in your writing career. How have you used it to promote yourself and your work?

The main thing has been setting up a website. In fact I have 2.  My ideas are that big!  It's a great way to get my face out there and to let everyone in on my latest projects and crazy ideas.  I also use Facebook, particularly if there is an event coming up that I want everyone to know about.

Do you find yourself having to promote and market more than you actually write these days?

Recently that seems to be the case.  Even if I'm actually not promoting the book, I find myself wondering what other things I should be doing to get T. R. Foster out there.  What's even worse, I'm already thinking about how to market Kool Blood.  Even as I finish word-smithing it, I find myself wondering how a few scenes might be changed so more people will like the novel.  If you have these kinds of thoughts, creatively speaking, you might as well put a gun to your head.

Using your own experiences as a marker, do you have any advice for those individuals out there wondering if the effort is worth it when it comes to pursuing their own dreams?

Not to sound cold, but I think if you have to ask about the effort, you shouldn't even start. There isn't anything rational about acting on your dreams or creative desires.  You won't make much money, most people won't want to look at your stuff, read your writing or even care much about you one way or the other.  The good news is that a few people will care.  And they will care very deeply.  So you need to work extremely hard on your craft and push on your dreams—always be honest about this.  That way when those few people arrive, you're ready to give them something that enriches their lives as well as your own.

Thanks again, Tom, for taking out this time with us. How can our readers keep in touch with you online?

Come visit me at www.trfoster.com.

Making A Difference One Canned Good At A Time


by Cyrus Webb

So many times we get so caught up in our own problems that we forget about the hardships and daily struggles of those around us. Not Tony Marren. He has spent over 20 years volunteering to help feed people that are struggling to put food on the table. Then in 2009 he formed Operation Just One Can (www.operationjustonecan.org) with the objective of showing what we can do with literally one can of food or the change in our pockets.

Tony and his organization came to my attention in June as I was searching for story ideas for Conversations LIVE and this publication. After reading about his cause and talking with him about his goals, it was obvious to see that this was something he was not only passionate about but realized the importance of sharing it with as many people as possible in order to have the largest impact.

I was sold, and started looking for ways that I along with Shadow Play Entertainment (the parent company of the Conversations brand) could help. It occurred to me that as Tony stated, we can make a difference where we are right now. It doesn't have to be a large food drive. It begins with one person, with YOU.

As a way of jump starting my effort to help Tony get the word out about Operation Just One Can I posted his logo and a link to his site on all of Conversations' primary sites: www.conversationsmag.com, www.conversationsliveradio.com,www.thebestbookclub.info and www.conversationsmodelcitizens.com. I also decided that Conversations Magazine would donate a 1/2 color ad space (a $250 value) to promote Operation Just One Can in each issue for the rest of the year.

That took care of the easiest part.

I then called up a good friend of mine---Eddie Sandifer---who for the past 17 years has worked with the Southern AIDS Commission. One of the components of their work is to offer a food pantry for those living with HIV and AIDS. I had worked with Eddie a few years ago, and saw this call to action by Tony as a way for us to reconnect.

I have now committed to donate 50 canned goods a month to Southern AIDS Commission beginning August 1, 2011. That is the least I can do to make a difference in the life of someone in need. What about you? What can you do to make a difference?

For starters visit www.operationjustonecan.org to find out more about Tony and the ways you can help. Maybe it can be your finding a worthy cause in your area and helping it in your own way. For some it could be a civic or religious organization that can band together to address a problem you see.

The lesson for me is that no matter what you choose to do, make sure you do something. That is the only way that problems can be addressed and erased.

A big thanks goes out to Tony Marren for using his own example as a blueprint for what we all can do. I also want to say thanks to Eddie Sandifer and the work that Southern AIDS Commission is doing to make a difference in the state of Mississippi.

If you would like to donate to Southern AIDS Commission, contact Eddie Sandifer at 601.519.6208. You can also ship canned goods and dried food items to the following: Southern AIDS Commission * 2310 Belvedere * Jackson, MS 39204.

Want to share what you are pledging to do in your own area or want us to know how you are helping others right now? We would love to share your stories both online and in future issues of Conversations Magazine. Email me at cawebb4@juno.com with your stories. Together we can make a real difference.